I believein the guotes that "If you admire the rainbow after the rain, then why not love again after the pain" But it is hard for some people to love a person because half of their hearts love the person that breaks his/her heart, even if that person is gone and will not return anymore. But I believe that to love a person you must not force it, you should just take it slow and make time for yourself to appreciate the little things that your friends, and family did to you.