the five homes order

chapter 4 agression homes

The agression homes like its name suggest as alot of angry, bullying and manipulative intent to get what he/she wants..

This homes can also involve both genders..
The Male counterpart of this homes can be very demanding to his partnership and even the surrounding environment.

The agression homes can be a  socialpath without any control of his emotions..
This homes offend attracts domestic violence in relationships because of his need to over state his dominance..

This homes is extremely impulsive, maintaining long term relations is very low..
Oddly enough this homes social nature allows him to find short term partnerships because of the manipulative and demanding attributes..

Even tho aggression is apart of a man trait..
which does attracts females towards him..
This homes as no control which allows him to be too aggressive, even when its unnecessary..

The unstablness of this homes doesn't only affects his surrounding but also affects him self..
To be Frank, the agression homes is a double edged sword...
Particularly when it comes to being committed.

they may know what they want.. but the way they get it, is mainly too unstable to maintain..

This homes when in wants of something, it will turn into obsession if left uncheck.. the fact that they will pull every trick..
Even to lie to obtain they wants, makes getting the real deal even harder and delaying..

The misunderstanding to be only demanding to convince people to go their way..
is their strength and weakness combine..

E.g. you desire a loving partner, you show that you have primal grip to be a leader, stating to your spouse you have what it takes to lead and protect the relationship..

Which the aggression homes usually does.

the lack of control plus no mastery of self, to know how to act in different type of situations, using only one method to fix everything..
Which ends up making the predicament more critical..
leads the female to be turn off from the male counterpart..
Providing immaturity in his action making it visible to the female counterpart, the unablness to be civilize.

In some cases the Male as [bpd disorder]

He does have what she wants in "first sight" but it takes other attributes to maintain relations for long periods..

E.g 2 for instance normally putting 2 spoons of sugar to make a lemonade drink.
but assuming putting 20 next time will make the taste more enjoyable..

Females can also be toxic in this homes, while the Male counterpart may show physical toxic behaviors, the female may show mental toxic behaviors.

Female counterpart are Mainly to use passive aggression to indirectly poke at a person armor..

The female will start being over demanding of her partner..
acting and thinking the world should revolve around her.

her unwillingness to admit to her wrongs and taking no forms of responsibility towards them, creates a disgusting paradigm in her head over time, that makes her unable to settle.

The needy homes are great targets for these females..
because of the need to have a partner is so strong.. that the males in the needy homes will over look her bad characteristics,
that leads to a draining unhealthy relation..

The females in this homes, will sometimes allow males in the needy homes to be involve with them, because she can be the dominanting one.. while the Male counterpart is easily manipulate and under her control.

Other times the females in this homes prefers a dominant Male that she can try and control over time..
that means falling for guys in the aggression homes, man worth homes and balance homes particularly the aggression homes very fast.. without even knowing the person good enough, which most likely will not work in her favor..

She will use gaslighting at any chance she gets to question a person's reality to hold a upper hand in situations..
so the partner thinks maybe he was at fault even if that's not the case.
similarly to the males in the aggression homes.. the females does the same but more aggressively in a way of mind games..

In someways this homes finds pleasure in having power over everybody else..

The arrogance of this homes can willfully underestimate others..

When figure out their deceiving intentions they will play the blame game.. doing anything to get other people to see them as the victim.

They can and will if feel the need to put on a show.. just to make that person seems as the bad guy..

they have no problem risking somebody else reputation but they hold their own reputation in high regards..
And will do anything to maintain it..

Some males in this homes will also fall in the alpha male category..

This homes does know its limits. when being challenge they will lose it.. but if someone is to out match them they will back off knowing they couldn't tame that person..

They hide anything that is consider weak to the public eye,
to make themselves seem more challenging, even though they do have insecurities that they try to cover up..
biggest one is to be seen as weak.

The aggression homes most often times has bad relationship with their parents or not being able to grow up into a steady environment, which causes traumatic experience that's unresolved into adulthood.

A man should be aggressive then control over it
masculinity isn't just about force alone

This homes should work on assertivness more than agression, to learn not everything needs a reaction..
with control over impulsive behaviors this homes will transform it self to be more humble but agressive if cross the line with..
the agression homes sometimes turn into the man worth homes that then turn into a balance homes or even jump straight to the balance homes, since all the agression homes need
is to have control with the knowledge to know when and when not to be aggressive..

I'll suggest the aim for knowledge, mainly reading alot will change this homes outlook on life and
how to react more efficiently, when needed..
which will put more focus on assertiveness than pure aggression towards everything..

S.D