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⭒Being Human⭒

It's something most people will ignore, but i request you not to. Whenever you're free for 10 min, come and check this part just once. It can change your life and also of those around you. Let's try to save the humanity in this ruined world and make it a better place to live.

We need a superhero, but we ourselves can be for each other. Here are the 11 simple steps for making this world a better place to live. If we all follow it and spread these with love to all around us.

• Being kind and loving to all the good souls we come across. Helping a person, treating with affection at their times of need And being grateful, instead of ignoring or taking for granted, when being helped by someone. If you help someone and they say you thanks, tell them to help another person instead of thanking and let this continue. Trying to make someone laugh or happy, talking with them in an assertive and affectionate way is also a great way of helping someone through their bad days.

• Knowing yourself and improving your thought processes. Unless you don't understand yourself, you won't be able to know what you want, what you don't and end up in confusion. Try to take some me-time and introspect into your life, your thoughts everyday, your decisions and realise how amazing person you're and whatever you do for others, and if you realise something you did is wrong. Never blame yourself or feel that you're a bad person, forgive yourself and try to correct the mistake. Instead of self blaming for hurting someone, mend the hearts you broke with kindness. Forgiveness and Apology are signs that you're a great soul. Whenever making a big decision try to analyse what could be the outcome and difference between different choices. Choose the path you find right. If you cannot decide, don't worry, just share with your friend, family or even us. We all are there to help you if you ever need. Seeking help isn't a sign of weakness, but it's a sign of wisdom.

• Understanding each other is vital for every relation and for peace and happiness. Accept others the way they're, never force them to do something which isn't possible for them or not in their interest. If someone does something wrong, you may complain, but if they react to something you said or did. Don't call them bad or oversensitive. First think of what you said from their perspective. See or ask why they felt so hurt by you. Often in relations and friendship, we misjudge a person and trigger trauma not knowing it might be hurtful and when they complain we get angry over them. No no, first hear them out and see things from their perspective, know them more before judging anything. When someone's sad, they usually don't need long lectures and words like "Don't be sad. Chill be happy, don't think about it", these words often make a person feel more worse as Sadness and Hurtings aren't in our own control, it's a feeling. It takes time to heal, not our own choice. If they want sometime, give them space. When they tell you something about their feelings, do not make it feel invalid. Support and respect them instead of being against when they need to be comforted. Everyone has a different life, and thus different needs and choices. We cannot expect people to be perfect and like us, if we ourselves are imperfect. The biggest mistake people make during sad times of others, is to worsen the mood of a person at the name of care. When you care, do it with affection like a friend not like an owner, make sure you never say anything which can feel harsh, triggering, irritating, forceful, disrespectful toward their opinions or irrelevant to them. No one is oversensitive, everyone's just surviving through a lot of pain and problems. Claiming their problems as small or calling them weak, idiotic, or lazy is a choice of only stupid people. Understand a person the way you want them to understand you.

• Follow your heart, let your brain decide if it's right. It's your choice to decide whom you keep in your life. Just coz you're lonely, being with toxic people, seeking bodily pleasure and bad companionship always ruins your trust and heart someday. Be with the right ones who give you back equally, don't get stuck with wrong people who don't care about u unless they need u. Being happy alone is better than being broken hundred times by the same person. If someone says you're wrong doesn't means you're, it's just they have a vision defect in their mentality. Love yourself they way you're. Express yourself and be free from anyone's opinion about you, do what you want :)