I asked numbers of people about this who answered their points almost half a year or so. I’ll have you guys know that, in the bottom of my heart, I sincerely was thankful even until now with your kind, Christian advices.
Yours truly,
outofwordtheater
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Sorry to write her but I need more perspective about this life struggle.
My cousin too is currently. Been praying for her belief and acceptance of Christ's salvation to be true. Eternal life is the most important right? No one can save her but Christ. However, been praying for her recovery too. She have two daughters and one is just a two-year old, depending on her. Before getting the cancer maybe a year ago or when she was carrying the baby on her womb, she was the breadwinner of their family. She the oldest sister of the five sisters and all other two have numerous children depending for the money she gives her parents, who was taking care of her sister's children and her parent's depending special child who cannot stand at all, needing assistance everytime. Her father was diagnosed and was not able to do his works as a carpenter. And her fourth sister is just in high school, clearly cannot help for expensess at all. They're at the house now, asking for my uncle's assistance (her uncle too, brother of her mother). Her mother clearly meant that they ask that my uncle would give up all his money to treat my cousin but my uncle and his family cannot agree. My uncle's son said that they would help, but they won't give all because their source of income might be killed. I do not know what to do, honestly, my uncle is a pastor and his other two kids are pastors, one Bible woman, can't they just give all they have like how Christ died for us all? And like Christ asked a rich man in the Bible to give up all his money? I don't really get their reasonings.
They were poor before and my uncle pastor worked hard enough to send his four children to college graduation and started working? Though they had a bad history with his wife's sister who have money but cannot spend a single penny for them to lend. His daughter fear that her family might become like her aunt who just became rich and give nothing to people in need or even lend.
My cousin is in the house, the house where my uncle resides, along with her husband and two kids, her parents, and her two sisters's children, the second sister, the fourth sister and the special child is now there, eating the foods my uncle and his family offers. They help with household chores.
My uncle's main income is from the sea, he is a fisherman and has a small house made of bamboo in the sea a technique for raising and catching fish, my uncle's son fear that their source of income will die if they'll help/give their all for my cousin.
My uncle's first son already gave her money for operation (which is not enough) but she always delayed due to Covid-19 whatnots.
My question is, is it a sin that you refuse to give your all for someone who needs all the money they might get to stay alive for the people that are counting on that someone? Still, salvation is all she needs, sigh. Sorry for writing this life experiences; in need of other people's perspective about this. Thank you for anyone who are good enough to reply. God bless.
