Living As An INFJ

INFJs During Emergencies; Leaders.

We all know about the smartness of INFJs, but not everyone's aware of their logical minds and observation skills.

INFJs are the most practical and prepared people you could ask for.

As an INFJ, I grew up researching about emergencies and what to do. If there was a tornado in my city right now, I'd stand up and take the lead.

INFJs may be introverted, but we can step up when we need to. At school, since I was quiet, people would cut in front of me in line, and I'd speak up.

"Hey hey hey, there's a line," I could say aggressively. INFJs respect the fairness and following of rules.

When I was about eight years old, we were about to move away but we had a housewarming before that.

The priest was lighting foil, and I screamed. I knew lighting foil is terrible and can easily set the house on fire.

My sister had been upstairs, and I'd run through the smoke, coughing and choking.

I was held back but that didn't stop me from screaming at the top of my lungs.

INFJs are your best source of help emergencies, and that's because they notice everything minutes before.

The problem is INFJs are often ignored because people think they're ALWAYS stuck in their minds and keep seeing things.

But the truth is far different from that. We spot threats quickly. We can identify fake people, liars, mistakes.

We notice the smell of smoke and we can spot a funnel cloud minutes before the tornado touches down.

We as INFJs are perfect leaders but prefer not to lead. For example, in group projects in school, I'd be crossing my fingers not to get the group leader role.

But in any instance of danger, know you can count on an INFJ to save all your miserable lives.

In a fire, they'll lead you down the stairway calmly, though panic burns inside of them. In a tornado, they'll find the best place to hide within seconds.

INFJs have a need to help people, whether it's directly or indirectly. If anybody asks for advice, even if they have no idea, they'll try their best to reassure the person who asked for it.

When I was in fifth grade there was a girl in my class, she was mostly nerdy. Messy hair, everyone said she was "dumb", which was technically the opposite.

Again, another example. If anybody ever called my friend dumb, I'd raise my voice. "Shut up." I'd tell them.

I didn't care about people's opinions of me. I was going to be myself, and I had no interest in what others thought of me.

I soon became friends with "the nerd" and realized the title didn't suit her. She had many amazing ideas and a thoughtful mind, just she was a little different from people...

Mentally. She had a hard time understanding, she panicked, had trouble following instructions, and she was NOT at ALL dumb.

I wanted to help her but had no idea how. I've gotten good at reassuring people, so I try my best to do that whenever needed.

When I was 12 years old, I discovered an anonymous therapy chat site, where people could anonymously vent and get anonymous advice and support.

I'd not realized for a long time that mostly adults used the site, and I'd been giving advice to 21-year-olds for a while.

I'd give my advice, wait till the end and then reveal that I was, in fact, 10 years younger than them and giving them expert advice.

That'll wrap it up for now, and look forward to the next chapter about the rare lives and abilities of INFJs. Requests are allowed.

-Sarvae PC.

PS: Rayna Coehl is an imaginary character, based on me, and the stuff I'm saying in here is all truth about me, and I AM an INFJ, 12yo at the moment, thanks for asking.

Cya.

Have a good life. (Comment below if you'd like to vent about your problems. The site is blahtherapy, btw. Completely safe and secure, just don't share your personal details.) Geez, INFJs have a lot to say, I've worked long and hard on this. OKAY BYE CYA PEEPS ANYWAY BEFORE I START BLABBERING AGAIN.