Living As An INFJ

Who Are INFJs?

You can never really tell what's going on in a person's life when you first meet them. You don't know what thoughts are in their head, what their family life is like, etc.

The people you think are the happiest and have better lives than you...you don't know if they really are.

That's because people don't say out loud what's inside their mind, what's going on in their life. So you never really know anything about a person unless THEY tell you, or SOMEONE ELSE tells you.

My name is Rayna Coehl, and I'm an INFJ. A true INFJ, who gets underestimated, is wiser than all, and who people don't understand at all.

When people think they know an INFJ well, they're not right. Only the INFJ knows who and what they are.

INFJ's feel emotions stronger than the rest, are full of insecurities and doubt. But once we get over that, we're life-changers.

As an INFJ, I've had to give anonymous advice online to five struggling adults today. ADULTS! Like, people 10 years older than me!

It's just the hard truth. Nobody even knows how smart the INFJ's really are.

Right now I'm twelve and a half years old, and it's October 2022. There's been a lot of stuff that's happened to me in the past, but INFJs learn from their mistakes.

INFJs actually live up to what they are, though it took me a while to figure that out.

People say everywhere that INFJ's put others first and prefer to help people, and I first thought, "No! I'm NOT an INFJ! Because I focus on myself more."

But then I was proven wrong. I'm not really fond of helping the poor or doing something about climate change and nature, but I AM concerned about mental health awareness and I do try to help.

And in my past, one of my mistakes was being a people-pleaser-kind of person.

I think that though I've made mistakes, that's what makes my life, well...my life. If I hadn't made several mistakes, big or small, I'd never had had that big mental evolution last year.

If I hadn't faced depression, I wouldn't be as strong and smart as I am after coming out of it.

So the people who are richer, have more priveleges...don't grow up to be the best people. Those who face more struggles actually end up having better, successful lives.

My family is rich, for a fact, like really rich, but they're toxic too, so they don't like "wasting their riches on their children".

But rich people aren't always bad people. Like you could even take me as an example. Sometimes rich & toxic families sprout better kids unknowingly.

And the purpose of this book is to let things out...the INFJ way. And I'm also here to help any other INFJ's with living their best life. So take the 16personalities test and if you get INFJ, you can keep reading. Thanks.