Profile Etiquette
1. Be descriptive. List things you like, find attractive, hobbies that you have, your personality type, etc. Same goes for what you're looking for. If you don't want a man over 40, then say that you're looking for a 'younger sugar daddy.' Don't beat around the bush because you'll waste both parties time.
2. If you want your allowance to be a certain amount, list it. Don't list "Open Amount - Negotiable" for your allowance if you have you mind set on a certain amount.
3. Use a good picture, make sure it's clear, and appropriate. Listing pictures of you in your underwear will attract the men looking for escorts.
4. Use good English! No one wants to read "Hai, mai name is RaChEl!!! I luvvvvvv, pupies"
5. Don't exaggerate of flat out lie on your dating profile. We all have things we don't like about ourselves, but when you lie about something obvious, don't kid yourself or the person!
Do you know what to look for in a Sugar Daddy profile?
I'm speaking of Seeking Arrangement directly, but, if you're browsing profiles you want to look for:
1. Diamond Club Members / Certified Members: They pay a significant amount of money to be one.
2. Decent pictures are a huge plus. If I'm seeing a guy wearing Old Navy, I'm a bit skeptical. Also look for a good handful of pictures. Just one would also make me a bit skeptical.
3. A really detailed "Arrangement I am seeking" For example:
"I am looking for a fun girl for a long or short term arrangement with a monthly/weekly allowance for her. The amount depends on the person and her availability. I had my last sugar baby for almost 6 years. She would have been still here with me but her mom suffered a stroke and could not feed herself or bathe so she moved back to upstate NY to care for her mom. Tell me what your looking for or need and leave me a message. IF YOU CAN OR ARE INTERESTED IN MOVING/RELOCATING TO HOUSTON TO LIVE FOR AN ALLOWANCE AND POSSIBLE APT LET ME KNOW WHEN YOU CONTACT ME" He is upfront and honest about what he wants
4. Look at the "About me" also. This is also important (but, in my opinion, not as important as the "arrangement I am seeking.") I think the About Me is LESS important because some people have a really difficult time telling people about themselves. They should however, know what kind of arrangement they are looking for. A good about me would be the following:
"When a lady chooses to enter my life, she has a mentor, friend, and supporter for life, whether we remain lovers or not. While I enjoy dating and am polyamorous and a philogynist (look up, its fun), I both admire and respect any lady I date.
As said, I'm open to a relationship or even marriage, however I will never settle for less than the right not-so-perfect partner! (emphasis on partner) So, until then I enjoy meeting, befriending, having unbridled fun, and/or dating attractive WHITE, and FIT ladies under 36 (or look it), who lack drama, enjoy fine dining, wine, concerts, art, music, travel, fun, and adventure.
I'm not arrogant, possessive, jealous, or emotionally needy like many other affluent men, so I have been told. I am VERY secure and comfortable in my own skin and who I am and I am extremely open-minded! Close-minded women need not apply."
5. Always look out for bad English and bad grammar (unless they're foreign) and the term "play." Again, an example would be this man, who had the title "Waht to play":
"Older man (57) seeking a younger daytime playmateArrangement I am Seeking
I'm Seeking:
Sugar Baby (Female)
My Budget:
Less than US$1,000 monthly
Description:
"I can help you if you can help me"
People who say, multiple times, "I AM REAL!" make me believe they are not real. Maybe some of you have had a different experience with that, though.
Good headers: "Looking for a smart lady." "Looking for a good friend and maybe more" "Looking for the right lady." "Looking for a woman" Bad headers: "WHAT'S UP LADIES" "New at this..." "Looking 4 HOTT women"
Messaging Etiquette
1. Again, Use good English. When a Sugar Daddy emails me (unless he's foreign) then I always look for good English. If he emails me with "Ay baby, wanna hit up my digits?" I'm not interested. The same goes for messaging men. "Hey, u wanna go out with me?" Will usually not attract them
2. Don't reply with two sentences if someone messages you two paragraphs because it's very rude. He took time and effort into writing too you (unless he copied and pasted his about me.) Take time to reply, and word yourself carefully. For example, I wouldn't rewrite my about me in different words. I'd give more information.
3. Actually read their profiles. Sure, it may be long, but do you really want to ask two paragraph worth of questions that are already on his profile? If you've read "I'm a huge animal lover" you could reply with "I saw you love animals, me too! I've always been a dog person, but right now I don't have the time for one."
4. Don't fly to meet a sugar daddy. If a sugar daddy wants to meet you after the first day, then respectfully decline. Flying to meet a sugar daddy has more cons than pros if you're unsure of their identity.
5. Don't seem like a desperate sugar baby. Stating that you need money immediately is a huge turn off for Sugar Daddies, and rarely will that approach ever be effective
