There comes a time in every Sugar Baby's life, where for whatever reason, that wonderful Sugar relationship comes to an end. But don't fret, I repeat, DO NOT PANIC! There are plenty of sugary fish in the sea.
No matter what the reason (he's moving, found another sugar Baby, you have Sugar needs he can't meet, etc.) the best part about having an arrangement is a clean and easy break. One of my favorite relationship quotes was said by Joyce in 'Little Black Book': "A clean break is easier. You can reset it, and it heals, and you move on, but if you leave things messy, and things don't get put right, then it just hurts, forever."
Take every ending of an arrangement as a clean break, you reset, recharge, reapply lipstick, move on, and find another Sugar Daddy. Sometimes it feels like you have to start over, like "Ugh, I have to get ready, go meet him for coffee, the introductions, setting up the arrangement, etc." But this (not so really hard) work eventually pays off (literally pays off, as in U.S. dollars).
My advice for new Sugar Babies is to not get too emotionally invested and attached to an arrangement, because all good things (may) come to an end. As with most successful arrangements, the key is to not question the end of it either.
In most arrangements I've had, we agree that if either one of us wants to end the arrangement, we don't really owe the other an elaborate explanation, and the other party should be okay with it. That's why I'm writing to advise new Sugar Babies out there to avoid an in-depth emotional attachment, because the name of the game is not to get yourself hurt when things eventually come to an end.
This is not to say that over the course of time a perfect arrangement can't evolve and you may certainly find yourself in a long-term arrangement. In fact, most Sugar Daddies that I've met and ones I've had are looking for a long-term arrangement that can fit their lifestyles because they often don't have time for endless meet and greets with potential Sugar Babies. But the reality is that circumstances can change at any minute that may be out of his or your control, and as a Sugar Baby you should be mentally and emotionally prepared to have to move on and find someone new, but do realize that that is perfectly okay and do not take it personally.
So always put your best foot forward and take every end as a new beginning, because that's exactly what it is in the Sugar world. When one Sugar door closes another will open and it's a fresh start to meet a new POT and see what he can offer you.
