Why bring up the past? It's called the past for a reason. The past is the past, and the present is the present. We're supposed to treasure what happens now, not what DID happen. Why are you gonna judge somebody's choices and decisions because of that? People do change. People do mature and grow up. You're never gonna meet someone who hasn't messed up in the past or done things they don't regret. But, that's all a part of growing up and becoming a better person. Your mistakes and choices are what shape and build you into a better and stronger person. Your past is what makes you strong. The past should stay dead. Nobody should define you because of what regretful things you've done in the past. We're only human, We're not perfect. We never will be. You can always try to make things better in the end. As long as you think what you've done is for the better then, what else matters?