Love Yourself First

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Now I know I can't physically see any of you, but raise your hand if you love someone?

Your mom, dad, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, friends, passed away family members, a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Now raise your hand if you would do anything for them?

Buy them things, tell them you love them daily, smile at them, be there for them, give them advice, hell you would even possibly take a bullet for them. Because you love them, you love them more than you love yourself.

Now this is where the role of my opinions come in. I strongly believe that over atleast half the human race gives other people advice that they wish they could follow themselves.

A strong example would be between you and your friends, or a close family member that means alot to you.

You would probably tell them something around the lines of, "life will get better you just have to keep trying." Or "what would I do without you?" But if those words dont help for you why do you think they will work for anyone else.

See we usually take this advice from our inner selves, advice we should follow oursleves. This advice can be simple, or if can go into details, it could be a small answer that the good part of you wants you to know, or it could be an excellent detailed answer.

From the pros and cons in your life which one do you let control you?

Which wolf do you feed?

Do you feed all the bad things that people say about you, the past of you that makes you sink in darkness, the part of you that doesn't let you be happy because your constantly thinking about all the negative things in life and not enjoying any of the good?

Or do you fuel the positive energy?

Do you enjoy being happy, to laugh, to not worry even when the world seems to be crushing you down. Do you let the pros of what people say to you fuel you. Not like a huge ego, but enough not to believe what everyone else says.

I think that you fuel the bad.

The bad part, the part that makes you do things you don't want, the part where you make stupid decisions and regret them later.

See, most people do this because their whole life has been full of negative energy. From people abusing you, emotionally, mentally, and physically. All three can take a tole on your mind. From what strangers say, to what your parents say.

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