scream [a collection of rants by yours truly]

☽ COMING OUT EXPERIENCES

IMPORTANT NOTE AT THE END

literally feel like i only come on here when i need to rant about idiots but hey at least i'm here, right?

but anyways, are you ready for the excessive swearing to start? 3..2...1... go!

lately i have been seeing a lot of people saying that they have it harder coming out then someone else. for example, i have a friend who told me that 'i had it easy' coming out because she had to tell her parents that she was a girl and that it was harder for her because she was trans and i 'only had a girlfriend'.

first off, fuck you.

second off, no. i did not 'have it easy' telling my extremely religious, half-homophobic family that i had a girlfriend. you can go fuck yourself thank you.

don't try to degrade my coming out struggles just because you think you have it harder. i had countless days when i thought that no one would ever love me and that my entire family would disown me. i struggled for the longest time and honestly, i have no idea if i ever would have come out if it wasn't for my girlfriend. but the point is, it was not easy for me to come out.

now don't get me wrong, i'm sure it wasn't easy for you either, but don't sit there and tell me that i didn't struggle with the same types of things that you struggled with when you were about to come out.

coming out is one of the scariest moments in life, or at least it was for me, and by downplaying someone's experience you are basically making a mockery of everything that person went through to finally accept themselves and to tell others. it is fucking hard for everyone, not just you.

-holland

and here is that important note i promised lol. but anyways, i'm thinking about doing a book called 'real ass advice' where you ask me questions or really just anything you want and i give you my advice on it. would you guys be interested?

love you guys!

-holland (again lmfao)