17/7/16 entry #37 Doing the dirty

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Okay trans people thinking about sex! I know how hard it is with you know the wrong bits and bobs right? Thats where imagination comes in handy its pretty easy actually. All you need to do is imagine that your bits are the right bits!
       Everyone gets sexually tense so when you get sexually tense then you need some sort of release. There are many ways to do this that can make you feel more comfortable in your skin. A hard packer is good for us boys so we can please our partners the way we would like too. Also it depends on how comfortable you are with your bits because some trans people aren't really bothered about their genitals. But using things that resembles a penis or breasts and a vagina helps as its no longer an object it becomes a part of you.
      Get confident in bed do what makes you comfortable and make sure you and your partner are completely ready and sure. Some people don't want to have sex at all and may be asexual and that's not a bad thing respect their decisions too. I hope I've helped with this because I know how it is and its not fun for me when I get sexually tense haha so I hope I have helped in some way. So remember use your imagination and things that make you feel comfortable and like yourself!

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