Love
Love…. A small word in which every letter has a very strong impact on people. Love. It comes in many forms , comes from many people and brings about many relations.
Love between parents and their children is one of the most unconditional forms of love. Sometimes it goes sour because of many reasons but it is always forgiven. Either because it is a relation marked by blood or because we have no one but each other in this whole wide world.
Love between siblings is a whole new level. It involves the concern of a mother and the strictness of a father. It is one of the purest forms of love.
All of us have experienced these forms of love. The most contemplated or sometimes even the most complicated form of love ((before relationships)) is the love you expect from and give to a friend.
Friendships can be complicated as tangled as earphones or smooth as silk. It depends on the maturity of the two friends. It often happens that people are afraid of unconditional love and they back out of strong friendships because they are uncomfortable. Love becomes a burden if it is not acceptable by a person due to various reasons.
Every coin has two sides, neither of the sides are wrong , they are just different. People’s feelings in friendships maybe different because of different expectations, different forms of portraying love. Sometimes due to the fear of unconditional love, there is a huge gap that is created between people that cannot be filled, especially not by love. You are pushed away by the person who you loved beyond the world. Nothing in the world probably hurts as much as being pushed away by a loved one.
These situations can lead to you beginning to fear being in a friendship with anyone and fear hoping love in return. Fearing love when your heart is ready to love beyond your imagination is scary. It drives people mad. It drives me mad.
Friendship and love are those emotions that have caused many battles because someone means a lot to someone. It often happens that a person who broke a heart is not even aware of it and the person whose heart he broke is hurting to an unimaginable extent. Love comes with hurt. We cannot stop loving or stay away from love only because we don't wish to get hurt.
Love can be smooth as silk and you fit in with the other person the way two spoons fit in a drawer, the way a pair of sneakers fit together. Communication is one of the most important asset of friendship. The clearer you are about your expectations , your feelings , the better and stronger the bond becomes.
There is a time when everyone thinks that nothing good will ever happen. That no one will ever be friend them because so many other people thought of them no good and broke their hearts. But this ain't true… when the time is right you do get the best of people.
It often happens that the best people are very disappointed in themselves because they don't have any friends when they deserve the best of friends in the whole world. That is almost like a test of their patience. One day, one day they surely do get paid for their patience. Every tragedy in this world comes with a lesson and that lessons leads to a better life. Belief and trust is all we need.
It may happen that after being heart broken, you may start fearing love. Fear getting and expecting love but only love can heal you. Believe, always believe that the next person who walks into your life will be that person who mends your broken heart. If he leaves don't lose hope, he just taught your heart to love even strongly.
Love. Always heals. That's the only reason it is love. It can bridge gaps, it can fill wounds and heal hearts. It is a strong tool. But like any other tool if it is used the wrong way, it hurts beyond imagination.
Love.
Friendships.
They are universal medicines of emotional diseases.
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