Missing gaps

Parent

"I hate them so much."

"Who?"

"My parents, who else!"

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Do you know why parents need to know or demand some stuff about you? 

Some Parents sometimes feel the need to get to know you and your friends not to spy on them or you but because somehow it helps to get to know you better... How you behave around your friends. They want to know your friends just to see how they treat you and obviously who gives you a bad or good influence. Maybe true or not but at least hands are extended for the chance of getting to know who and what makes you the way you are.

Do you know why they demand a call or a message wherever you are?

It calms them down making them trust you more and vice versa. Meaning you will also trust and tell them the truth no matter what. Whatever happens they'd know what they could do if something happens. 

Why they nag and why they can be repetitive?

It's not because they want to piss you off (sometimes it is) but because there are things that cannot be put on hold. Why later, when it can be done now and lessen the responsibilities later. Also because it eases the stress that parents have to deal with everyday, when the job gets done right away. 

They don't nag because they hate but they want you to be responsible and not be in the habit of having things pile up and then you get stuck in a rut! Because they love you and just want you to learn for your future. And once you learn and be sensitive enough to care more about simple things like cleaning up not just what you used but what you know your parents wouldn't like then the nagging stops.

Why they don't spoil with unnecessary things?

Because the want you to learn the importance of hardworking... of saving... of thinking about others... of learning when and which one should be prioritized first.

and lastly why they don't want hidden relationships to be kept as a secret and why parental perspective should also be taken into consideration.

They have been there doing the same. They know when you hide something no matter how much you try. It builds respect between the parents and the suitor and as you as well. You get to know the family background.

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There you have it. So don't bad mouth your parent(s) even though they're the wrong one. You see they're also human (obviously) but what I mean it that they also just think what's good, just like us we make different decisions, we think differently. You may know what you did wrong but mostly you never know it. Maybe because you think you're always right, don't notice or you just don't want to know. It depends on you.

Everyone makes mistakes. Just don't blame it on others. 

Maybe they've also experience the same way you do or did. Maybe they don't want the same mistake to happen to you. We, people never think correctly. There'll always be a loophole, no one would know. 

Maybe there'll be others who won't have the same experience but it goes for everyone. There is always someone (and I mean someone) who needs you in their life. You're wanted. 

Your parents may not be perfect but they are the most precious gift God has ever given you.

Not just parents, every meaningful person you'll meet.

Maybe. Maybe not.

-noticegurl