Dear Kat,
I am not sure if this is in your area of expertise, but since this is an advice column, I hope you can help. So I was with my boyfriend at the movies, and we were watching an action comedy and then a romantic scene came up. Like most bf and gf do, we kissed, but then he slid his hand to the front, from where his hand was on my beck (the top!) and I got uncomfortable. I pulled away and said "What are you doing?" He just mumbled sorry and went back to watching the movie. The next day I heard him bragging to his friends about the "base" he got to. I'm only sixteen and I am not sure if this went too far.
Love,
BoysRWeird
Dearest BoysRWeird,
I am so sorry to hear that this made you uncomfortable. At your age, sweetheart, you have got to understand that boys are going through a lot of-er- changes and are thinking differently. We all test our bars. When is the last time you have tested a friend or teacher or even parent to see what you can get away with? Admit it, everyone does whether they realize it or not.
Anyway, he was probably just doing that because of peer pressure (trying to seem cool) since he was bragging to his friends. Just let it cool and if he does it again, politely say,
"Look, I love you, too, but this makes me a little uncomfortable now. We're still young and if you really love me, you'll hold off a little longer until I feel better about it."
If he really does love you he will, and he will respect you and your body. If he's in the relationship to seem cool, forget him. Best advice I have up my sleeve, honey. Hope this helps!
xoxo,
Kat
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