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Loosing Feelings

Dear kat,

There is this boy that I have had the BIGGEST crush on for two years, I don't know if I can say that I love him, but I have strong feelings for him. He was two years older than me, so he eventually graduated. He didn't like me back and I tried so hard to forget about him. I haven't seen him for 6 months and I miss him a lot. Once in a while I think about the memories I shared with him. Like the day he kissed me and the day he hugged me and all the days I can say has been the best days of my life. I cry once in a while because I realize that I really miss him and I need him in my life and I know I'm probably exaggerating but that's just how I feel. He has a girlfriend right now and he's in love with her. He was the player type and he changed his ways just for this one girl and I'm really glad that he is happy. The thing is I'm losing feelings for him because I haven't seen him. I know that's what I wanted to do for two years and I wanted to get over him, but I couldn't. Now that I'm getting over him, I don't want to. I don't to because I feel like we're meant to be. I know he's the guy for me. I feel it. But I'm scared. I'm scared that I'm going to forget about him and I'm scared maybe he isn't the one for me.

Dear Anonymous,

gahh didn't mean to press enter...but anyways, chances are, that if you are loosing feelings with him, it just may not be meant to be. If he says that he loves his girlfriend and is aware of your feelings, then he probably doesn't feel the same about you. My advice to you is, friend, that you tell him about your feelings if he is not already aware, and if he likes you, he'll be with you, and if not, move on. That is my best advice to you. Best of luck!

Xoxo,

Kat