"The focus must change
I must notice me
I must give me life first
Before I can hope to revive that in another
I must first meet myself
In the dark
Facing North
A mirror of myself, who I was and will be
Who I amIf I can conquer Me
If I can understand Me
I can then hope for love again
And I will not let myself go as easilyLove comes when we need it
Not when we want it
Love comes when we are ready
Not a day soonerSometimes we block our own path
But I won't get in my own way again"- It is time to move on , lavender lady love