Last chapter was about 'You' and how you are living your life ,what you are doing to keep yourself satisfied for living.
This chapter will be about other people ; the people around you and how you both affect each other's life.
First of ,to start with a question.
What do others really mean to you?
Probably a bit hard to answer because different people mean differently to you. If I ask you about a specific individual ,it maybe a bit easier. But I do not plan on changing my question.
Let's see it in a simpler way.
Say for example- while making friends.
People always try to make friends and socialize as much as they can. It's human nature to socialize. But before that while choosing to make a friend ,don't you judge them?
You obviously have to. And so ,on what basis?
Nature , personality, responsibleness or/and maturity.
Everyone is different , you can either like people or not.
Everyone's upbringing , life experiences , minds and hearts are different.
It's not just them ,it's you too.
People will judge you too. And you will have to bear their
similarities and dis-similarities with you. Different people will understand you in a different way. People are always trying to gain attention. So do you.
Everyone has different capabilities. You cannot judge them on that because it is perfectly natural. But if they have really practiced on something and increased their capability, that person is an exception.
Not all exceptional people were born exceptional, some had it naturally ,some earned it by working on it for years.
A simple example for it ; drafting a very tough question paper. Usually if you are not scoring well in an exam , your parents scold you. Common words are that, "don't compare yourself with people you got more than; everyone was given the same Question paper so compare with the person who came first ."
Yes, that's true but they fail to realize eveyone is different.
For some people, being like a topper means being exceptional already.
No, it's not like that ,its completely incorrect. This shows your lack of confidence. If you are not willing to work hard you are nothing in this world.
People give preference to exceptionalists ;so be one. You can be one. But for that a lot of sacrifices have to be made.
If you want other people to judge you in a positive way ,it's upto you ,how you put up yourself with others. At the end you might think it was all so easy. But no, it's wasn't . If it was really easy , you wouldn't be a multi-millionare or an Oscar winner.
People are striving soo hard to be at the top . Ask yourself where you are compared to them.
Do you think this world is only ment for you where everything is a simulation?
If so ,someone else is also reading this ,he maybe a simulation for you while you are one for him.
But anyways it's all real.
All you have to do is to enjoy this one life and experience it.
It would be like scoring points on how much you have achieved.
Points for making someone happy ,more points for living for others and even more for making someone else's life better.
It's upto you to decide ,whether it's a simulation or a reality you have to bear that someone else is better than you.
Everyone is perfect in their own way and so are you.
When someone has an impact on your life , you too have one on theirs ,so don't take anyone for granted and trust eachother.
Part 3- ~~~~~ In A Nutshell
I ll try to post it ASAP
