Darkness makes the stars shine...
YES, I fucking know that BUT what should make you shine is not darkness baby. Loving family, purpose, friends and self esteem, THAT should make you shine brighter than any damn star.
You still not feeling it? Sorry to say it but I've learned the hard way and I know what it feels like to loose my shine and I also know what it takes to get it back and to own it. Suck it up buttercup. Get up. Get your shit together and find your purpose to shine. Got it?