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late night thoughts

Tänker ta allt detta på engelska för jag är för lat för att skriva på svenska lmao:

People who just doesn't seem to get that everyone don't give second chances??
Dude what the fuck.
If you commented on her picture that you don't like her and then fucking expect her to forgive you then expect a fucking no and stop playing victim. You're a fucking bitch and used stuff she's extremely sensitive about against her. You're a horrible person. Go fuck yourself.

People who don't accept sexualities?
What the fuck went wrong?
Don't go talk about straight pride like we in the LGBTQ+ community are privileged.
There's 195 countries in this world.
There's 26 countries in this world that support gay rights full out.
There are several countries where you can be punished by death for being gay.
There are several countries where you can get a prison sentence for being gay.
Many countries doesn't allow same-sex couples to adopt.
So don't ever fucking tell me about straight pride ever again.
Nobody wants to kill you for being heterosexual. You can't get a prison sentence for it.
So shut the fuck up.

Don't ever tell me that feminism is useless and not needed anymore. Read about it bitch, it's definitely needed.

People don't owe you sex.
If you tell a person that you want to have sex with them and they're not sure and you keep pushing them until they say yes, you should feel shitty.
That's not consent.
And if you "had sex" with someone who didn't say no, doesn't mean they said yes.
Don't even try to tell me otherwise.
You're wrong.
You are so terribly wrong.
Forcing someone who said no or didn't say yes is rape.

Don't ever joke about sexual harassment.
I had a friend once who said "Haha Maia if I touch you now, is that sexual harassment? You should know"
Shut up.
Since that has never happened to you, don't ever fucking joke about sexual harassment.
You didn't feel those hands.
You weren't eleven and catcalled on an open street by a guy in his twenties.
You weren't there last night when the guys screamed that they would change me "to a more un-innocent girl" and then laughed and whistled.
You weren't there.
You've never been there.
So don't ever tell me how I "should have reacted", what "you would have done if someone touched your private parts" or "you should just have slapped him in the face"
You don't know how it feels.
So just sit down and be quiet about stuff like that if you're going to joke about it or blame me for what happened.
Don't tell me that "you shouldn't have worn that" or "you should have punched him in the face"
I'm not even fifteen.
I may be older than eleven now and that's a long time ago but that doesn't mean that I am happy for the stuff that has happened to me. That I'm flattered. I'm not.
I shouldn't have to worry about my clothes just because my body is more mature than every girl's in my class.
Don't tell me that I should take "shit you don't look so young! I mean you're so grown up and stuff!" like a compliment.
I'm a child.
Let me be a fucking child and let me grow up.

How can you, without feeling shitty afterwards, walk up to someone you don't like who's talking to their friend and drag the friend away or make the person you don't like walk away because they don't want anything to do with you? You make their heart fucking break you stupid ass bitch. You don't know how the hell this person is feeling because you're just a stranger with all their secrets. You don't know how their life is right now. So shut up. You should feel shitty, and you are a horrible person. Fuck you.

And I am sorry and this is just a lot of things I've been thinking of lately.
Goodnight.

//Maja