Umm... What?

My Friend has anger issues...

Obviously, I'm not gonna say his name, but not only does he have anger issues, he also is very conceited and thinks he's always right and if anyone tries to say he's wrong, he pitches a fit. And I get it, talking about your friends' without them knowing is petty and bad... Yeah I know, but because of these problems and such, I get really fucking anxious, even if I'm not in the situation. I don't like yelling, or fights that I'm watching, it's a PTSD thing from my parents fighting. Recently, and I mean two days ago, my friend made a server on Discord (if you don't have it, get it, and then friend me: Buddhist Boy#9059 ) and then somehow someone he thinks hates him joined, and then a bunch of other people he hates or they hate them, I still don't understand the whole thing, joined and he was confused as to how they joined. I didn't know these people! I had no idea what was going on. But they started going back and forth with the replies and then it turned into a whole big argument about the sole reason they hate each other. 

The entire time that was going on, I was paying attention to what my friend was saying, and he kept saying how everyone was making him out as the bad guy in the situation and that when he states his opinions, he's always wrong apparently. The thing is though, and I just know this because I've seen it, whenever there's someone in a server that my friend doesn't like, he will start shit with that person, just because he hates that person. There was an instance where I was in the middle of making a server that was supposed to be this big project of mine, and I needed help because it was stressing me out, but I wanted it done. So I had my friend and another guy I know join the server and immediately, my friend starts commenting on the little things that the other guy said. I told both of them that I don't want anything to start before I even get the server out there for everyone else to use, and that I was already stressed enough, I don't need anything else making me more stressed than I need to be... Did that stop my friend from continuing on with his petty remarks for no reason? Nope! And then he started bringing that onto me, getting mad at me, and I broke... I deleted the server and all my hard work. 

Now... we all have those small things that drives us insane and piss us off... Not for my friend, no no, he has to get pissed at every little thing. When I deleted the server? Yeah, he ranted about that to a different server, and I know that because I have another friend that was in the server he ranted to. If he can't find something, he gets extremely pissed and makes threats towards myself. If someone has an opposing opinion than him, he tries to shove his opinion up their ass like they'll believe it. He's also very naive when it comes to love, cause he just met this guy who I'm not gonna name, and he already was asked out when they barely fucking know each other, and yeah, I know that there's a thing called blind dating and stuff, I've never gotten that kind of thing. And I know that you can't base someone on their name, but I have a bad history with someone with the same name as the guy my friend's into, so I automatically didn't like him. Someone can be a good person, but not dating material, that's a fact. He just doesn't understand that, and I told him he needs to focus more on school anyways rather than date someone if you want it to be a committed relationship. He got pissed at me because I cared for him?? When I'm one of the only people who care about him.

I still love my friend to death, but I really wish he would just calm down... That'd be wonderful if he did.