Another way to life!

Life is product of phases.

"We are living this life in phases, life is the product of phases." 

To understand the wonderful mystery of life, one should consider the fact that life follows the universe. Universe is a perfect blend of balance. This universe follows the divine principle, everything is in a pattern and so, is the life. Problem arises when we, human beings cling to one part or phase of life. Most of us, who are struck in a phase, is because they are giving so much value to one thing and neglecting all others. 

Everything is flowing in this universe, you and me too. Some of us, who holds a trauma, a bad experience or any bad memory so firmly that they develop depression, sadness or any other psychological disturbance. On contrary, some of us try their best to suppress the sadness or pain and pretend to be happy. This practice adds more burden on their well being. 

Emotions keep us in flow and all we need to do is 'to be a good host'. When sadness visits you, sit with it, offer your heart like a cup of coffee. If you want to go deep with it .... go for it. Praise the darkness of her soul, see into her hopeless eyes, embrace her flesh-less body. Feel all of it, whatever it takes, do it. But do not cling to it, let her go as she came. You know you could not keep the door close at her arrival then why most of us, block the door when time comes to say good-bye.

'Happiness' another phase, it is like a light that radiates and all people around you would love to join you and take some light for themselves. You cherish the moments with your people and they love this too. But strange part of this phase is, when it is gone .......... you still want those around people around you and they aren't there. Because this is the way, this world works. When you are happy, you are source of happiness for so many others. That's the point where so many of us lack the understanding that when we put our happiness in other people, we are putting our well-being into danger. Because you hold power on 'you' not on others. One must know to create his/her own happiness and whoever learns this art, is on higher peace level. 

As all human beings are different, they have put their happiness into different things. Money, a destination, any business, a love affair, family, a new car, a new house, a career can be his/her happiness. On the other hand few consider compassion, humanity, sacrifices and love as their ultimate goal of happiness. Whatever we put on top most priority, it defines us. 

But ultimate goal should be to understand the procedure that nothing is forever. Then why would anyone of us wants any state forever ? The balance is important, the variation of emotions is important. Clinging to any part of this phase of life or any certain emotion is an abnormality. Keep yourself and your emotions in flow.