Another way to life!

What life demands ?

Life itself is a very vast domain, a distribution of blessings and dilemmas. As just said 'we live it in phases' and every phase demands a different part of us. To understand the basic need of the hour, an individual must know the problem first. All the solutions come after the insight of a problem. This is the point where we need a guide, a mentor or just a voice to say that right thing to us which is needed in that moment. 

There are times when we know the solutions but still reluctant to apply the ideas which already exist in our minds. Because we are judging our own selves and doubting our own abilities and here universe comes in and blesses us with someone or something which can make our inner voice louder than our own doubts. This someone or something can be a teacher, a mentor, a best friend, a psychologist or may be any incident that can hit us so hard that we realize to unlearn and relearn existing ideas, schemas, believes and ideologies because change is the essence of universe. Just like the visible outside change, our inner selves require an inner prominent change which may be gradual or sudden.  

About life lessons : Life lessons are tough and painful. Every lesson has different intensity of pain, some cost monetary loss, some inflicts physical and emotional pain. They take us out of our comfort zone, they mess with our peace of mind but what is the value of peace of mind without any interference of discomfort ??? This universe works in a paradoxical way and there is a pattern in every changing, like days come after nights, spring comes after summer, rain after storm and sunshine comes after rain. And whatever comes suddenly, unexpectedly its either miracle or disaster but a change ..... surely a change; the essence of universe. Human Life is same way, a paradox, a wonderful combination of versatile circumstances which bring lessons for us. There is a slight difference here, we got power to decide to what to take out of a situation. Same situation or circumstance can be a miracle or a disaster for different individuals. 

Two Rape victims By definition rape is ' an intercourse without the permission of the individual, its a sexual assault' what this definition fails to explain, is the emotional pain a person goes through, that feeling of taken away a part of his/her soul. Most of us have once gone through any such incidence where a friend, a teacher or a partner is so imposing that they don't listen us. Talking to them makes us irritate and if we feel little more its because we feel we aren't having our basic right of freedom of speech and in some cases people burst out in that very moment.  It is that distress on a very very severe level, where victims lives with the same body that has been polluted, mascaraed by an evil touch.  That pain is something as real as your own body, entangled with your own existence. You can see the lips mumbling, breathes getting uneven and heart sobbing so loud that your own heart will feel the equal pain while they are telling their story. Two such victims, made me ponder over the same painful incident differently. 

A 16 years old girl raped by a close relative, suffered from depression and suicidal thoughts who gave up and  took it as destiny and accepted to live on the sympathies of others and another one 17 year old girl raped by someone trustworthy, she took the same incident and decided to get out of the situation and took another approach to life. Here are the last notes written by both victims to give a better insight of the thought process.