Another way to life!

What makes us "Stick" to any phase of life ?

Life means flow; flow of breathes, emotions and phases. 'Sticking' at any phase during the cycle of life, means distortion. To understand that "what keeps a man going ?" its is very crucial to understand what makes a man to "stick" anywhere in life. There are two major facets of life, either you are living it truly or just spending it like a dissembling of living. You can't live it truly by sticking to any possibility (past, present, future). You have been into the minds of three individuals who were stuck into these possibilities. 

Psychology behind sticking with any possibility:-

People sometimes go through some uncertain situations and their psychological reaction to those traumas transform such situations into big giant of fear and pain.  In those critical times when they don't share and keep it inside, it stay alive. It ghost them and don't let them see any way out. They keep all the pain and suffering alive and take some dose of pain time to time and develop a fixation. Just like any addiction, human beings are addictive to pain too. We can't deviate from nature. This Universe has put some sort of affiliation to pain, in us. But I believe it is there so we can feel the pain of others and behave more human. As I said earlier this is a paradoxical universe. Universe has put some selfishness in human nature too. About pain, that's where this selfishness get in. It consumes whole part of sensitivity to pain for individual's own pain. In this case, a being is so blinded with its own pain and suffering that he/she can't see the pain around. People are driving different types of satisfaction out of it. Either pain is soothing them or sympathies, they are just stuck. They are so afraid to admit that something hurt them so bad that they are unable to getting out of it.  

Why they choose to stuck ???

The answer is, they were playing "brave" and they behaved according to what was expected from them. The perfect idea of bravery says: "you are going to go through everything all alone by blocking the way of your natural flow of emotions and you won't share your true feelings" because you have to be mature or I should say you have to pretend mature. But the imperfect opinion says: Take this life as an experimentation. Take few moments rough, raw and unplanned. Be very true to yourself and say "it hurts" when it hurts. 

No life is empty:-

There is always few moments of realization. Different people just take different paths in those feeble, delicate and decisive moments of realizations. Few choose escape and find it in drugs and meaningless relationships. Few choose to let the pain consume them and few others choose to get back on track by fighting the big giant. Here I would like to introduce another deeper realization which I call "awakening of soul." These are the people who go through pain and then detach themselves from it. They look back into the pain from a different perspective and develop a habit of looking at pain of others too. All this life is in a continuum of flow and whoever got stick, he is suffering. Few will admit that they  are suffering and others will say that they have willingly chosen this way. But none of it can heal the "isness of pain" and lost hope isn't less than death.