hey y'all it's me i got mega inspo to write this while i was in the shower so now i gotta write it quick before the ideas fall out of my brain. come get y'all juice
-obi
· He's not the type to kiss on a first date, and it takes him a very long time to work up the courage to kiss you. It's not necessarily that he's nervous about actually kissing you, but he's just really shy about showing his face. So don't rush things, let him make the first move so you don't overwhelm him. He'll definitely kiss you when he's ready, and it'll show just how much he trusts you.
· He LOVES to hug you from behind and give you little smooches on the back of your neck, especially if it's still pretty early in your relationship and he's still shy about you seeing him without his mask. Expect a LOT of hugs from behind when you're cooking.
· If you cook for him, he will be SO touched. Since he's had to cook for himself since he was very young, you're the first person to make something for him in a very long time. He'll shower you with praises and he definitely won't let you forget how much he loves and appreciates you. Knowing how much he loves your cooking, it only makes you want to perfect all his favorite foods just so you can spoil him.
· Bonus points if you're learning how to cook just for him. But don't expect to get any actual constructive criticism if he's taste testing something you made— he loves everything you make, no matter how bad it actually is.
· He is a MAJOR cuddle bug. Even if you manage to escape from him during the night, he'll latch back onto you pretty quickly. He just needs a constant reminder that you're there and that you're not going anywhere.
· He's pretty clingy, and understandably so. Most of his closest friends and relatives have been taken away from him, and he's afraid he'll lose you too. All he needs is for you to be there for him, to hold him close and remind him that you won't leave no matter what.
· He's especially afraid of hurting you, and I don't think I need to explain why. He always holds you so gently, as if you'll break if he's not careful.
· Sleepless nights aren't uncommon with him, and when he does get sleep, nightmares aren't uncommon, either. If he can't sleep, it's probably because he feels guilty about things he did in the past. Just be there for him, and remind him that none of it is his fault. If he has a nightmare or a night terror, try to wake him as soon as you notice. Just hold him and let him cry into your shirt, and don't pressure him to tell you what it was about.
that turned really sad somehow and i can't transition to save my life so here's more fluff stuff as a palate cleanser
· He will not hesitate to get you flowers. If he doesn't know what your favorite flower is, you can probably bet that Ino was the one who picked out the flowers for him. If you especially loved it, it'll only motivate him more, and he'll start getting you flowers more often.
· He just??? loves you so much???? He would do ANYTHING for you. The fact that you care so much for him is such a crazy concept to him. Thinking about you motivates him so much, and he doesn't know what he'd do without you supporting him constantly.
