Ok, so i need to do schoolwork i didnt do yesterday because i got sick 3 times BUT I just finished a whole page so im taking a break cuz i realized i havent made a chapter on this before
YOU DO NOT NEED TO HAVE DYSPHORIA TO BE TRANS*!!!!
That said, every trans* person is going to have some dysphoria in the pronoun/label department, if you dont have that then i personally dont think you're trans. But, if you have just a little bit of pronoun dysphoria and no physical/vocal dysphoria, you are 100% still trans*.
I am genderfluid, today I am male, but I do not worry about my voice (im a low-key twink anyway lMaO) or my body. For me and im sure im not the only one, dysphoria isnt a crippling thing like some people do experience. That does NOT invalidate my place in the LBGT+ community.
Sometimes dysphoria can be something as little as a loss of feeling for your breasts or other parts. When I'm agender its basically like they arent there at all. For today being a guy, my breasts for example have a feeling like they arent there, like obviously i can feel them if i touch them but when i dont they just feel light and nonexistent. Same with the other thing, its not that i feel a "phantom dick", i just feel like there is nothing there. While this technically can be considered dysphoria, most people dont see it like that. Im very comfortable in my body (gender wise we dont talk about my fat rolls) so that is seen as me not having gender dysphoria. I live with she/her pronouns around people im not out to, yes i do feel weird sometimes but i dont feel like breaking down over it. Some trans* people are like me. And thats 100% valid.
Take enbies for example, those who dress as their assigned gender. They are still nonbinary.
You 👏 do not 👏 need 👏 to have 👏 dysphoria 👏 to be 👏 TRANS* 👏
thank you for coming to my psa remember whether you have lots of dysphoria or pretty much none, you are still valid and it's ok to feel that way.
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Genderfluid 101
De TodoMostly genderfluid tips, but some chapters can help with struggles in the whole trans umbrella as well. Also LBGT+ psas for the community Go check out @WTCCampaign they do wonderful stuff there and they appreciate my book :))