Sometimes, when your upset, you don't need to hear this:
Me: *tells story of why I'm upset*
Friend: "Omg thats sad I'm so sorry that sucks wow."
Sometimes what you want to hear is this:
Me: *tells story of why I'm upset*
Friend: "Mmmmmm..... Wanna get something to eat? ;)
Me: "Yeaaahhhh."