[English fanfic] Why RU BL-ing me once more?!

Chapter 69: Saifah's monologuing ruminations

June 2nd, 2020, 8 o'clock, GMT + 7, Southeast Asia time.

"Your reaction makes your life. Positive people see life with an optimistic lens, negative people look with a bored, pessimistic eye. And the end result of these two attitudes will be very different."

"A lot of people believe that maintaining a positive attitude will lead to a happier life than the constant negative thinking. However, not everyone can easily do this because of each person's perspective, life circumstances and conditions affecting from the outside are always different. With the vivid images below will help you somewhat understand the basic differences between negative and positive people. Surely after watching, you will have a clearer view of how you are reacting to your present life to make the appropriate adjustments."

"Negative people are always afraid of change, while positive people are always ready for new experiences. Negative people often wonder why they have to praise people who are doing what they have to do, while positive people always say, 'Wow! You are a real expert.' A timely and timely compliment is always motivating and unexpected. When starting a conversation, the negative person will say 'You know, I'm going to...', while the positive person will say 'How are you doing? I hope everything is great'. Negative people think they are the center of the universe, while positive people are always concerned about those around them and willing to help. Negative people often blame others for their mistakes, while positive people are willing to take responsibility for their own failures. Negative people never apologize even when they know they are guilty, while positive people apologize for any inconvenience they cause others. Negative people only think of personal accomplishments and interests, while positive people try not to hurt others. Negative people always secretly expect others to fail, while positive people want others to succeed. Negative people hate being criticized, while positive people are always open to constructive discussions. Negative people always think they know everything, while positive people are always trying to learn new things. When comforting others, the negative person will say 'Deal with it, let yourself cry, things will get better', while the positive person will say "Come on, stop crying, I'm on my way over already, cheer up.' Negative people think they cannot do anything and accept their present lives, while, positive people think that they need to change to become better, to become the best version of themselves."

"Each of our earthly journeys is finite. If you worry too much, you don't have much time to enjoy, experience and be happy. When you live and find yourself worrying too much, stop and say to yourself, 'all things shall pass'. The fact that you are facing, no matter how hard, suffering will go away. You cannot ruin your life with fearful thoughts. However, there are certainly dark days when you feel terribly worried, with no way to stop. At that time try to think: fear is not good at all. It was like drinking poison on your own and hoping the obnoxious neighbor would die of a stomach ache. Get rid of it as much as possible. Live happily every day, do not think of the bleak distant future. Planning is good, but it doesn't always work out for us. Therefore, the most important thing is to live life to the fullest. Those who have a peaceful attitude under any circumstances can calmly analyze without being unconfident or overconfident, and leisurely deal with things. And those who have a bad attitude, when facing difficulties, he immediately falls into panic, loses his temper, cannot control his emotions, behaves like a completely different person."

"Only when a person fails a certain number of times can he achieve great success. Therefore, when encountering unexpected events affecting your rights and morale, instead of embracing negative energy, calmly analyze, acknowledge the problem, continue to experience life. If not, you'll be in a vicious circle: Negative attitudes and indecisive hesitancy only make you overlook opportunities, ignoring new opportunities leads to failures, failures making your attitude becomes pessimistic... In this manner, this psychological problem lasts and turns your whole life into a deep abyss. Attitude often determines a person's realm, which is also the height of a person's attainment. After all, it is you and no one else who is responsible for how you spend the rest of your life in this life. Hatred or love, happiness or sorrow are all options."