Chapter:6 BULLIES

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When you enter high school life you should be very care full as there are so many people who will try to make you embarrass no matter what! Because this is what they all got. Me myself has gone through it. And it feels so bad , sometimes i thought may be they are right , may be i am futile , i am not good enough , and this really hurts. It even hurts more when u stop believing in your self. I got depressed at some point. I felt the most useless person ever even though i still feel like that but on that time it hit differently. When there is no one with whom you can talk , or can share things ,it become more hard to face that time. There was a time when i starting thinking that i am trash or even worse. You will face bullies in high school but its on you how you deal with them. There are different kind of bullies which are labelled below:
Physical bullying
Verbal bullying
Relational aggression bullying
Prejudicial bullying , and e.t.c.
Nowadays bullying is like the part of coolness for some people. You can stop bullying if you want as their are several ways , for example , talk to your parents , or report to seniors of school or to the principal, or there is another way which is my way , this is what I call it 😅 it is that come back with some savage come backs believe me it helps a lot. I used to get bullied i stayed quite and this is what encouraged them . I used to ignore them but that didn't helped me at all as they thought that i dont say anything to defend myself they started doing it more. It increased day by day. One day i was like its enough now , i should something about it , and then it was a moment where the school watched me fight with them verbally i came up with best come back i could on that day, on that time and the boys who used to bully me said sorry to me and since then no one ever tried to do that with me 😅.

Talking about your self with some one whom you trust and love and they love you back can really help a lot as when we share about things to some one it helps and it reduces burden from ourself

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Talking about your self with some one whom you trust and love and they love you back can really help a lot as when we share about things to some one it helps and it reduces burden from ourself. Sharing always help. As my best friends helped me a lot to get through this. I am so thankful to Ana, Lez and Yan and yea also Xariya she helped me a lot aswell i feel blessed to have them in my life as they made me strong and are always there to help me. Bullies will only bully you when you making them bully you , you can stop them by making them embarrass or something , but you can stop it.

(Bullying is a form of aggressive behavior in which someone intentionally and repeatedly causes another person injury or discomfort. Bullying can take the form of physical contact, words or more subtle actions.
The bullied individual typically has trouble defending him or herself and does nothing to "cause" the bullying.

Bullying is a distinctive pattern of repeatedly and deliberately harming and humiliating others, specifically those who are smaller, weaker, younger or in any way more vulnerable than the bully. The deliberate targeting of those of lesser power is what distinguishes bullying from garden-variety aggression.

Bullying can involve verbal attacks (name-calling and making fun of others) as well as physical ones, threats of harm, other forms of intimidation, and deliberate exclusion from activities.)
This piece of information id taken from https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/basics/bullying
Another note here 📌
Always share things with others ( with close ones only) ❤️ _ author ✌🏻

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