If you think you love someone right away within ten seconds of sight, you're inlove with an idealized version of the person, or like Shakespeare's Duke Orsino, " you're just inlove with the love" .
The fairytales encourage us to look for the lightning bolt, but relationships based on this kind of phenomenon almost always end in a tatter, this kind of instantaneous bond was seen as a kind of madness.
𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬.
