Lately I have been trying to figure out my sexuality and I think I might be bi or pan or some other sexuality where you like both guys and girls/multiple identifications.
But one of my oldest friends seems to be a bit homophobic. Not really directly or verbally but like one time we were driving somewhere and we were both watching videos on her phone when an ad came up and had two girls kissing in it and she immediately put it face down on the seat with a shocked expression on her face. When I asked what was wrong, she just hesitantly whispered, "two girls kissing!" And we just kept watching videos after the ad.
That was a while ago, now days I would have confronted her about it and asked why she thought it was wrong and such but I wasn't very educated or interested in knowing back then.
I have only actually come out to one friend who is bisexual and lives across the world.(so does the other maybe homophobic friend, I moved to Asia from America a few months ago)
Back to my other friend, other than that she is a really nice person and generally great otherwise, so I don't know what to do. Should I come out to her? Should I confront or ask her if she's homophobic? Also the only way that we can talk is over an app that her mom is able to monitor and if I come out to her I would come out to her mom who would most likely tell my mom.
You don't actually have to say/do anything I just kind of want to vent to someone. Even complete strangers.
