When to say “enough”?
When you're hurt, you cry; you curse; you tend to think not to love again. That's natural. Somehow, it's just a stage wherein you're still into someone. Don't expect to be okay in a snap. All things come into process. But don't close your heart into the chance of loving again. Life is a matter of chances.
If you missed shooting one bird once, it doesn't mean you'll lose again. There's no gain when you don't lose something. Everything comes with its consequences.
You took love. You got hurt. You forgive. You move on. And love again. "Enough" in love is stupidity. Yes, in some point, if love is not worth fighting for.
Learn to stop. But love after pain, you'll say "no, it's enough". That was an epic fail. You almost say that "I'll not go on with life anymore".
Once you're fucked up with someone, doesn't mean that the next one you'll love would do the same. I've been in severe pain, not just once, but twice. But see, my heart's still working.
Yours would probably do the same. How would you know if you'll sit in a corner, play sentimental songs, think of the past and cry?
Life's such a wonderful paradise. Enjoy it. Go on with the flow. Have more time with friends and family.
Being single and in a relationship were just status. It doesn’t matter as long as you’re happy.
Always put in your mind that you do not go into a relationship just to get hurt. God is always there for you… for us. He would not give us something we can’t handle.
Quitting is cowardice. Always be optimistic. Never say “enough”. Never give up.
Aminah A.Y 2010
