TW: oh gosh there are so many in this one idk where to start. I guess anything under toxic relationships, death, and potential abuse
Harry:
- Goes for missions and stuff without telling you where or even that he's going
- Thinks you're weak/incapable
- Says you're doing things wrong even before he sees you doing it
- Explains stuff to you like he's talking to a 2-year-old
- Constantly brings up the past in many ways
- During an argument bringing up things you've done that aren't relevant to the argument just to make himself seem better and make you feel bad
- Bringing up his past to make you feel bad and do things for him
- Brings up his past accomplishments to diminish yours
- Doesn't listen to your problems and shuts you down if you start talking about them because he says his problems are worse
- Accuses you of not being supportive or being with him cuz he's the chosen one, even if there's nothing to suggest that
Ron:
- Only tells you he loves you, doesn't show it with his actions but expects you to constantly show it
- Insecure to the point where it's toxic in the sense that he
- Takes everything you say as an insult, even compliments (Ex, "I think you're beautiful" "You? So you think no one else thinks I'm beautiful? And that's it? I'm only beautiful to you?")
- Gets suspicious of any guy you talk to
- Degrades himself and won't listen to you when you try to help
- 0 communication
- If he thinks something is wrong then he will start being rude to you and expect you to figure it out on your own
- Victim mentality
- Thinks you and everyone else is out to get him, even if he knows that's not true he will make it seem like it is
- Expects you to have time for him ay all hours and gets mad if you don't
Cedric:
- GLIB
- Will bring up bad stuff you didn't do and continue to bring it up until you believe you did do it
- When someone asks you out, he's mad that they asked you out because you're 'his' but also because he wants the attention you're getting
- Creates drama in your relationship if there is none
- Sarcastic support if you want to do something "WOW, y/n I just KNOW you can do it 🙄"
- "I'm sorry you feel that way" when you say that what he did upset you
- Pathological liar
- Lies about stuff he did, lies about things to make you jealous, lies about things you did, lies to others about you, etc
- Backhanded compliments
Draco:
- Tells you how terrible he is and how you should leave him so when you're upset about the way he's acting he can say "I told you to leave" or "I warned you" or "You knew this when you started dating me"
- Bullys and judges you
- If you say anything against him he'll say stuff like "Why are you getting so defensive?" "Take a joke"
- Thinks you're dumb and tells you you are
- JEALOUS~ and not only of you with other people but also of you (you achievements)
- Because he's jealous of other people around you, he will try to isolate you
- Because he's jealous of you he will diminish everything you achieve as meaningless and try to one-up you
- Tells you that you don't deserve him and that he hates you but he actually loves you a lot
- He won't tell you that he loves you but expects you to know
Tom:
- Is very careful with his words so he can gaslight you about it in the future, especially does this with minuscule things so it'll drive you crazy faster and you'll blame yourself
- "Can you pick up my homework for me?" T- "Yes, I'll pick up your homework" Hours later: T-"I never said I'd pick it up today"
- Doesn't tell you much about his life but expects you to tell him every detail
- 0 guilt about anything
- Criticizes you for things that he also does (like how he criticizes muggle-borns even though he's a half-blood)
- Will leave you if you criticize ANYTHING he does or if he even thinks you're trying to
- Threatens you
- Expects you to literally worship him
Mattheo:
- Wouldn't physically hurt you but will get up in your face and yell at you to intimidate you in order to win arguments
- He feels the need to win every argument, no matter what it takes
- Treats you differently in front of everyone
- If you don't want to do something or go somewhere with him then he'll call you a bore and ignore you for a bit
- One day he's telling you he loves you and the next he's ignoring you entirely
- Wants you to always tell him any time you go anywhere but will leave at all times of the day without telling you and gets mad when you ask
- Sometimes provokes you to get you mad just for entertainment
- Always tells you you're overreacting and to calm down
- Tells you what you can wear and who you can talk to
- Will not apologize for ANYTHING
Note:
I just wanna say this isn't to diminish or romanticize abuse/toxic relationships as that's a serious issue. I'm not saying that any of the characters would do this, because they wouldn't. This HPBR is simply the toxic traits I see in them if you multiplied their toxicity by a lot. If you're with someone that treats you like this, then they more than likely don't love you and I know you deserve a whole lot more so if you can leave, please do it. If you feel unsafe leaving or can't, then please contact a help center or a trusted friend/adult to help you because staying will only harm you and possibly turn you toxic. Toxic relationships are a whole lot more harmful than you think and are not something you want to fall victim to. If someone tells you they are toxic/abu$iv3 or shows signs that they are, then please leave because they will never change just like that and will get worse. Please use this and google to know/recognize toxic traits and behaviours so you can avoid them
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