The gear your comfortable using and that fits the pet will vary from person but these items are commonly used:
-ears
-clip on tail
-collar
-Pacifier
-harness
-pet toys
-thigh high socks or paw pad socks
-baby bottles/sippy cups
-plushies and fluffy blankets
-paw gloves
Things to keep in mind: pet toys can be made from toxic plastics harmful to humans, stay safe and steer away from any beach ball smelling plastics! When shopping for a paci you may want to specify an adult pacifier as it can be harder to use pacis with nipples (the thing on the end of pacifiers) in a size meant for baby mouths. If your trying to surprise a pet with a gear item make sure you know their taste because most pets tend to have more decorated or themed items .
Shops I personally recommend:
They sell collars and ears—> https://www.etsy.com/shop/collarzgalore?ref=simple-shop-header-name&listing_id=1147612756&page=2#items
They sell ears, tails, and Lolita dresses—> https://www.etsy.com/shop/KevinblueskyArt?ref=simple-shop-header-name&listing_id=1297718601&page=2#items
They sell a very wide range of collars—> https://www.etsy.com/shop/LunarLolipop?ref=simple-shop-header-name&listing_id=1233202157
They sell deco pacis—> https://little4less.com/collections/adult-pacifiers?page=3
They sell deco pacis and sippys—> https://pacisandstuff.bigcartel.com/products?page=1
In shop three there's a brief kink mention in some item TITLES however otherwise all of these shops are sfw and non kink! I would also link pet toy shops however I cannot gaurentee which ones are human safe so I'll leave that to you, if your looking for clothing or chewlery (chewable jewelry) I suggest simply looking it up on Amazon or any of your personal beloved shops.
