Unlike Guy 1 and Guy 2, this guy had been friend-zoned for a reason. He did not spark something in me at all in the beginning and I saw him more like a brother than a partner. This now I realize should have been a red flag when we rekindled but I digress.
Let me give you a little backstory. I met Guy 3 after high school. He was and still is a dancer, and I was also dancing back then and we had a mutual dancer between us - my cousin! The 3 of us belonged to 3 different dance crews and we actually first met when my cousin did his first song and wanted a crowd for his music video. The guy was immediately bro-zoned for a number of reasons which now remind me of why I should have never given him a chance. He didn't give me butterflies, didn't have a deep voice, and was short - my height to be specific(I'm 5'5), didn't have any other source of income apart from dancing for people every once in a while (this means he's actually very unreliable financially) and he was not confident in himself.
This was back then when we used to hang out together every once in a while and he expressed his feelings for me almost immediately when we first met - also another reason for being bro-zoned because he was not very confident expressing his feelings for me.
Fast forward to 5,6 years later, he has made a name for himself, is now a famous musician and dancer in the gospel industry and he seems like he has things going for him. I do not outright accept to be his girlfriend but I accept to go on multiple dates with him to see if he had changed/grown...well, he had- a little. He still wanted me and pursued me with more aggression unlike the first time...took me a long while(8 months to be specific) and I decided to say yes fuck it!
I really need to know your thoughts up until this point because as you can see, he's the completely opposite of Guys 1 and 2 which to me meant that I had grown and changed. What do you guys think? Do we like him or is he just a ...meh personality to be with?
Quite frankly, the reason why I said yes to him was that he was obsessed with me and I knew I'd eventually grow to love him like RIHANNA once said no?
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Short StoryMy desire for love keeps attracting me to the wrong men and I think I need help. I need to understand why my love life keeps complicating itself. I want to understand why I'm attracting the toxic kind of love. Dating is really not my thing and being...
