Chapter 7-Love or Attraction

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"Attraction is you're mine,I'm yours,
Love is we're one"

You may be wondering what's the difference between love and attraction.
They are like two vast sides of a coin.Both of them are completely different yet we confuse them.
There are endless things I can differentiate on , but i would prefer using the most prominent and understandable ones.

1)Time Period
★Attraction
You may feel those butterflies, constant beams of excitement and Adreline.This may not necessarily be love.It fades away sooner or later.
★Love
Love is permanent.It may not be as exciting or intriguing but you will definitely feel it, just not as intense.Its rather peaceful.Love is more about peace than excitement.More sobre compared to Attraction.

2) Perspective
★Attraction
Attraction is like an obsession.You are thinking about a person all the time.But most of the times you're fulfilling your own needs and personal benifits.
There's a huge difference between "Wanting" and "loving".
★Love
Love is when you constantly find yourself compromising and suppressing yourself subconsciously just for the sake of another person's happiness.When you start being happy simply by seeing someone else be happy-That indeed is love my friend.

3) Subconscious efforts
★Attraction
All the efforts are made out of pure excitement and in a rush of feelings.After a point you may not feel like putting any efforts at all.
★Love
You don't have to put in efforts and try to care when you're in love.You just do that, without even realising.You don't have to force yourself to do this or that everything you generally do would come out as affectionate.

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