Complete Psychology Of Love and Betrayal

Chapter17-The law of attraction

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||The Law of Attraction||

Have you noticed how you may immediately click with certain types of people?, it may just be a short conversation or someone you met at party you've been to the night before.
But,the type of people you're attracted to actually says a lot about your personality. It is thus important to recognize and understand your attraction patterns to build healthy relationships based purely on love , emotional support and mutual efforts.

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1)Younger Individuals

If you are generally attracted to individuals younger than you,then it shows that you are an energetic and adventurous person who wishes to explore new things with their younger partner. You love seeing the curiosity and childlike innocence in people. It could also mean that deep inside you always wished to enjoy life more but you couldn't due to some reason. So, being with a younger partner helps you feel youthful yourself and heals your inner child.

2)Older Individuals

On the contrary, If you're attracted to people who are older than you. It show's that you desire stability and maturity in relationships. You like the sense of security and insight on life an older person can provide you with.

3)Typical Bad boy/girl

If you are someone who finds the typical bad boy/girl types attractive. It may be because you love their assertiveness , confidence and free spiritedness. It is a possibility that maybe in your life, you always played the good character but it didn't give you any good results. You wish to be with someone who could bring out spontaneous teenager out of you and help you enjoy life more and not take things too seriously.

4)The Talented ones

If you find yourself constantly getting attracted  to talented individuals or people who have a creative mindset. It means that you like seeing other people glow-up or be the best version of yourself, you also like thinking about creative ideas, philosophies and feel things very deeply.

5)The lone wolfs

You may find yourself drawn to  these mysterious individuals, who appear to be unbothered and  often don't connect with many people. It could be because you love mysteries and the trill of curiosity. You value their strength and strong will and are willing to understand these individuals on a deeper level. It could also be because ,you have a nurturer inside of you that wants to care for these people and make them open their heart to you. It generally seems so hard to get close to such people and that may excite you to understand the mind of such complex individuals and have an insight on them.

6)Toxic individuals 

being attracted to toxic individuals can symbolize unhealed past trauma, a fear of intimacy or low self esteem . You may have experienced incidents in the past or during your childhood   that led you develops this type of attachment to toxic people. It is important to recognize and break free of such cycles to protect one's mental health. It is essential to remember that your brain would choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven.

7)The shy, mysterious individuals

You may be drawn to the shy, mysterious types who always seem to be lost in their own world of fantasy.This is because you feel like there's so much more to them than it is visible to the eyes,you wish to discover that side of Them that isn't visible to anyone.You love mystery and it could also mean you like the trill of the chase to get to these individuals hearts.

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