LOVE? I CAN'T RELATE

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︵‿︵‿୨ ♡ Entry 16 ♡ ୧‿︵‿︵

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Ever thought of how men around the world, when it comes to dating, mostly don't understand the way women think? We reach a certain point where we think a man who just listens is husband material. Luckily, there are a portion of men who succeed in understanding how we see love and relationships. Either they observe, watch, or read. But sometimes they're not 100% with us in the room. Out of millions of books and movies, will a large majority of men finally reach out and say, "I'll pick you up at 8? I like to see where this is going."

Away from swoons and embarrassing confessions, I bring a chapter for the adults. Also bringing up the fact that I am opening a surface level of generalization, don't think too much, alright? I certainly can't write about this topic in one entry; this needs a book. Anyway, let me introduce to you a short love story about Samantha Jone.

The reason I brought her up was because of her openness towards men. She does not give a single thought to putting effort into understanding men. Though she's able to manipulate and predict their every move, She lived this life until she met him. Samantha believed the guy was the same as all the other men she met. Clearly he wasn't; the more she expressed her cycle, the more the man fell deeply in love. This shocked Samantha; she started growing on him, letting him end her cycle of bouncing off different men.

Samantha couldn't believe herself changed, then she saw a door, back into her old cycle of no attachments and exhaustion. You see, we expected him to hold her back, but he didn't, and she opened it. She came back feeling unfulfilled and unhappy. No attachment means no comfort. But there he was, waiting, looking worried. He just wanted her to be happy.

We get to see the picture of Samantha's story, and we can tell it takes a lot of effort to change and believe in change. The man didn't have to do anything to alter her life; he just had to be there. To understand a woman is to cherish her. To make sure you feel the need to defend and support her, We are all different, from our backgrounds to our cultures, families, etc. Being part of a relationship means being there through thick and thin, supporting and understanding. If the other is afraid to openly express themselves, do not hesitate to leave. You deserve a lot better.

My readers, its complicated to understand the language women may speak but its not hard to put the effort. I've been afraid to admit that I am terrified of heartbreak and pain. I fear the worst, but a special person told me that we must always remember to keep living in the present. Even though my relationship right now may possibly-not-possibly someday come to stop (hopefully never; I love this man.) for some unknown reason, I'll never forget how happy it made me. I have to admit that I believed I needed a man older than me who knew how to take charge. It turns out I'm most compatible with the man who's a shot of espresso, likes to have fun, is less uptight, has a strong sense of passion, is funny, witty, emotionally intelligent, and always finds a way to make me smile.

To whoever is reading this, I hope someday you meet your other half too.

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