Cherishing Everything before Death

            Most of us may have already known what the death might be and what we might feel about the death of the people around us by imagining in our dreams, watching news, others' storytelling, eye-witnessing in our daily life, and etc.

            Death is a mysterious happening in our lives that we can't exactly know and feel it after the end of our lives and we can't speak to explain how it is after then.

            Life is too short to make us achieve everything we want or wish to do, but we still have a lot of time to cherish and enjoy our lives, so we have to always do our best and dream big when we're still young and alive, don't wait to just do when you're about ending your life, or you'll regret a lot.

            I'm sure that there are many out there have regretted after ones' death. Such as not showing enough filial piety to parents, not enjoying enough the childhood with the siblings, not giving enough care to the children, not cherishing the happy moment with the friends, not expressing enough love and feelings to the loved ones, and etc.

            We have to not only cherish everything before others' death but our lives as well. There are many people who choose to end their lives directly when they face the obstacles in their lives, but it's very wrong to do so. Before we choose to end up our lives, we have to think first that people around us would get very sad about our death, and this is the same way that we don't cherish others. Besides, obstacles are normal in our lives because everyone faces them anyway, and they're just the challenges that interrupt us before getting something we want, so we have to think about everything positively and believe ourselves that we can make it. If others have been the examples of passing them through, why can't we?

            Life can only be given to us once, therefore, never treat it as a toy to just destroy arbitrarily. Though there may be people who believe in reincarnation, but it is another new life yet to be started by your new self. No one else holds our lives but only we ourselves because we're the leaders of our lives. Destroying our lives isn't different from not respecting for our mothers because they gave births to us, so we must be always thankful for whatever our lives will be because at least we're given a chance to live and experience most things in this world.

            Lastly, I just want to remind again everyone that when we're still alive, take a chance to say "thank you," "sorry," "I love you," and etc., to the people who are important to us, and show them whatever we want to in order to let them know that we still feel their existence and care about and love them.