(This is the bully talk...now what I might say you will highly disagree but this is my opinion.)
In bullying I see tons of scenarios and theres none I have never been through before.verbal,physical,cyber etc...but the thing is I've grown numb. So when these things occur my face doesn't change since it's nothing new. Now when I see victims I only feel 1% sympathy.
I believe if you truly want them to stop you do it by force. You may think thats going to create more conflict. But trust me when I say this IT'S GOING TO HAPPEN ANYWAY. Now today I have just found out my bff's mom hates me. Yes I am a little hurt but you know what? It's ok because not everyone will like me. Now when I was a kid I thought the samething aswell. That fighting back physically or verbally makes it worse. But it honestly gets worse on it's own. Your gonna hit the first phase realization second phase deeper meaning third phase emotionless.
Thats right emotionless not a single ounce of a smile. As I have grown older my self-esteem is really low. To the point where i have barely any friends. If you want the bully to stop pushing around you have to fight back. Even if it means letting out some insanity to leave without a broken bone so be it. The more stronger you stand on their feet the more they will challenge you. Once they realize how strong you now.
They will retreat they are going to play the "restart game". Don't bother. Now here is another case the people who choose to blend in. DON'T IT'S GONNA HURT YOU. You may think if you blend in with the crowd it makes life easier. The popular kids just magically stick to you. Um no, they are going to find every flaw or talent they find stupid and say it to the world. Be yourself if your parents/guardian or maybe gf/bf dont agree on the person you are well this is you not them.
"Instead of falling the path
Why not build the path"
- Jay Daredevil (me)
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Opinions Of Self
RastgeleHI GUYS! I decided to give you a book that would try to help your self. I may give some stories that you might feel the same way as them. So bare with me on this book and enjoy!