Why do we crave so much to be 'sexy'? I mean sure, men have us thinking that we need to look a certain way to be at the the top of their list. But giving into their shallow upbringing, does that not give them all the more reasons to treat us like objects? When we pay so much attention on our bodies and not on what we deserve as a woman, our important qualities that we need in a man.
We as women have an important, delicate and painful responsibility, and that is to give life. It is such a beautiful process and to hate the aftermath of giving life is almost or entirely like hating the child.
If we can still see couples growing old together, with wrinkles and all that, what reasons do we then have to hate our bodies? Because if our bodies looks bad now according to us, it will look worst to you when you get old, and if an old person's body can look unattractive as everyone pretty much says it is, and they still have a man on their arm, why can't you get a man at this young age who does not care about how you 'think' you look?
When we think we can't get a man because "our bodies are apparently not sexy anymore" we are only thinking of the f**k boys and looking good for the F**k boys. We are never thinking about the good men out there that actually exist that does not care about your body, so is it that we only desire f**k boys?
There is always an opposite to a bad thing, you just have to believe that, you can't expect to believe that things are going to be different if you keep allowing the same kind in. So it's not that it's hard for a guy to love the change that has happened to your body, its just that you haven't been allowing yourself to find the right guy that will cherish you.
If you can get a man to cry at the sight of you giving birth, then there is hope. Because as a woman, we all know men don't like to cry in front of us. If there is good in the bad, there is good on its own, in all its entirety.
Confidence is way sexier than you trying to be perfect, because perfect is already you.
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