HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF (Completed)

how i (my sociopath part 5)

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There was a question that he had asked me that I could never forget, why do all women cry every night before they go to sleep? A lot of thoughts explored my mind around this one question. It spoke volumes in regards to the kind of person he is.

Some might look at it as a simple over exaggeration of maybe three girls that had told him they cried themselves to sleep, and he decided to use those three to decide the norm for every other woman on this planet. However, the important thing to note here is the surrounding events among this question.

His lack of reasoning for the apparent faults I seemed to have had in his eyes. His low spirit when I had caught him on his hunger for control and manipulation. His change of character every time things were going great between us.

Now you might be thinking, whilst the above made sense, why dig up information's and faults from the past to deem this one an even bigger fault. Don't you think you are being just a little bit paranoid?

What happened afterwards would have you thinking differently, but to analyze his question. I thought would be very useful for some.

Why do all women cry every night before they go to sleep?

The main thing about this question is weakness. As women, we are known to be very in touch with our emotions. We are seen as fragile and naive beings and that for a sociopath is perfect. Why? Because it is easy to get to you. With the amount of charm they possess, you can't say no. Especially when they have the ability to make you feel that soulmate connection.

Being naive and fragile, means that they can pinpoint your insecurities very easily and dive at them positively then negatively when you become completely tied up with them.

My next point, or analytical view point ties perfectly with the above. He could be very proudly indicating the amount of women he had destroyed with his tactics. Conviently, this assumption of truth, leads us to the point that would have you seeing the red dot in the middle of his question.

He was evidently, distressed. He was barely saying anything and knowing me, I most certainly had to get to the bottom of it. He had said the following  "usually I would be able to figure everything out about someone within a few weeks, but I can't seem to figure you out, you don't know what it is doing to me."

Those weren't his exact words but after a few exchange of replies back and forth, that was the conclusion made from it. He figured out all his ex's within just a few weeks, and I on the other hand, was just a big rock landing on his ego of ever succeeding another scheme.

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