HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF (Completed)

Parents

As much as this is hard to say, nevermind hard to take, parents aren't good role models either. What we have to remember is that they had once been our age, they had relationships, heart breaks e.t.c. Just like us, they didn't know how to handle it and they may even be further away from handling it now.

You are now at this age, the age that they were at where you could turn things around. As a son or a daughter
You know that many of our parents did not conceive in the best of situations, we are merely just a reminder or a resemblance of our father and the wrongs he did, and so we are nothing but targets.

We get abuse thrown at us all the time, we have been called good for nothing and we have just been treated as if we were never suppose to be here on earth. You are nothing but a huge blessing onto your parents, they might not have had the resources, the calm soul of another to help them strive, but you do and that..... is a blessing, we were brought here to teach our parents what is right, it's up to them if they want to listen and its up to you to take on the assignment.

You could've been born with so many things wrong with you like other kids, but you weren't, you are blessed and you need to know that. Sure, the words that comes from our parents mouths struck us even harder than people on the outside but that doesn't mean what they say is real or true, and that's because of that natural bond we have coming from the same blood, what they say has a naturally huge effect on us.

Treat or look at them as humans that are just as uneducated about life as us. Not because they are older means that they know more than anyone else, they don't. The pain that they have been through, they chose to allow it to continue to ruin their lives and as a result, they ruin yours.

This is the way things are and you do not have to settle for what your parents are saying to you. They don't know any better and that is just there way of coping. Understand that they have the power to turn their lives around and if they can't see that they are hurting you, then it's your time to use this book as a gateway to your own happiness, your own self love.

We can't sit around and depend on other people to help us go through life, discovery starts with you. Pat yourself on the back for even giving this book a chance, a chance to reach within you to fix whatever it is that was broken.

Your parents can't make you love yourself because they themselves don't know how to love themselves. Don't be afraid to make that change all on your own, you do not deserve to walk your mom's hell with her. Sure she is your mom but if she is not willing to make a difference she doesn't want to get better and you won't if you don't choose to make that step on your own.

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