Heart-Talk

Life Long Lessons

Melancholy, tribulation, affliction, pain...this is a certain stages in our life. A certain stage should not remain always. Being stuck at some point or stage means you are not moving forward. Life is meant to grow and glow. Water when flowing, seems beautiful. What it roars and crushes with stones in a river, even that sound is melodious to ears and it releases depression. The same water when kept stagnant, a rotten smell and odour arise after a time. The same is this stage in our life. We need to move on, how harsh or hard the situation may be for us. We can try to our best levels, but if certain thing isn't going to be in our favor despite every ounce of tear and blood put into it, we need to move on. We need to be our own hero then. If one thing is letting us down, we have a thousand other reasons to stand up, rise and shine again.

It's all about the courage to overcome your fears and move on. Let your fears be under your feet, let not your insecurities become your weaknesses, let not your weird side stop you from moving on in your life, let not other people's fun drag you down to the ground, let not other people's jokes feel you miserable, let not your tears be a reason to fade out your smile, let not your uniqueness end up in late night tears, let not your silence be a reason for others to point fingers at you, let not some worldly things decide your fate, let not others be drivers of your life, let not your inner self to die inside you and most importantly let yourself be truly you. This is how you take control of your life, this is how you learn, this is how you move on, this how you value yourself, this is how you value your existence, this is how face everything, this is how you grow through life and this is how you emerge as a better and stronger version of you.

Crush every thought that tells you give up, murder every feeling that drives you to be that stagnant water, kill every demon that tells you that it is over and face your deepest fear that is barring you from moving forward in your life. If there is no one, value your very own existence yourself, be your very own hero, be your very own driver, be your very own savior, be your very own strength, be your own power and energy. While everyone is busy in their own lives, mend yourself to a level to surprise them when they come back to you. Let your silence echo through the hearts, do wonders with your tapped mouth, tied hands and chained feet. Surprise them with your healing powers. Be unique, extraordinary and amazing in your very own way. Stay beautiful the way you are. Let your scars be your jewels, your marks be your ornament and stained blood be your badges.

Positivity is all we need, happiness is all we crave for, smiles are all we need and growing through life is all our right. Get attached to all the positive vibes, stay away from negative dramas. Make time for your own self. Do not try to please everyone. Once a certain amount of effort is put into something, stop. Overdose is dangerous, both for you and others. Put limitations, draw some lines and never allow others to come across them. This is the safest way to secure yourself and others. Have some mysteries, have some private parts of your life that are owned by you only. Freedom is dangerous, even nature has some restrictions, God has some parameters for us to follow. Have those parameters in your life too, everything is a lesson around us. Damage should mature you, not break you. The more you stumble, the more you grow and learn. Breakers reduce the speed of our growing through life, let them not be a reason to stop by. Learning is healing, healing is learning.

Get up and move on. It's your own life, claim it and be your own driver.

- hikmatbaber