Self Reflection

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Being a real person involves not being okay sometimes. It involves having bad days , failing, screwing up, going through times where it just seems nothing will go right. Sometimes you just dont feel okay for a long time . I have learned to embrace those times and be comfortable with my sadness. My happiness comes from keeping my balance. I cant dwell in my sadness to the point where i'm prolonging it but i ALSO cant be a maniac and book up my whole life with fun things just to avoid my emotions. You cant maneuver around being unhappy, we all go through it and that is okay. Let it happen , give yourself some time to express it and then let it go. Dont obsess over it and DO NOT adopt it as a part of your identity. Dont run from it like a lunatic , dont pretend you are never sad. Give yourself permission to be a flawed human. Give yourself permission to feel your emotions that naturally comeup when things dont go your way. Give yourself permission to be happy again when the time is right. You are doing the best you can , and that is enough.

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