My Journey To Find ME

11) The Loop Called Life

This is not a déjà-vu, but life does bring back to us the memories that we once left behind... even the ones that we never intended to think about again. But again the lack of calibration button between mind and heart brings us back to them.

In the course of sorting things out with loved ones when we think telling them what make us feel bad, will bring peace to us; it makes things worse at times. It can rather make that loved one feel it to be his/her fault and then they come up with introducing filters while saying of sharing stuff. Unaware of the fact that this will just give birth to downfall. Loosing trust comes next.
When we know that knowing some things about them will make us feel bad, we still want to know about it... WHY ?
I guess because deep down inside we know that transparency in any relationship is the most important constituent for creating a strong foundation.

Yes, it is going to feel really really bad at first but in the long run we are ought to feel nice.
If there is no transparency in a relation then misunderstandings are inevitable. Our mind starts making theories and assumptions of its own and then we are back to the bad memories.

In the times like this we can't think of the happy moments that we spent with the loved one but can only think of the moments when they have had hurt us never knowingly but always unknowingly.

Any human being is sure to feel detached and alone if at any point he/she thinks that the people, who are his/her priority, don't consider him/her as their priority anymore.

Misunderstandings are very deadly in any relation so whenever you think that you are on your way to creating one, just tell yourself that this is definitely not what you wanted, take a stand and clear the misunderstandings.
Make the other person realize how important he/she is to you and how much you admire the relation that you have within.

' We are the puppets of our thoughts ', so think of good and good will come your way. Show your loved ones that they mean so much to you. Remember every relation is different and has different things to teach you. So give it its space and nourishment of respect and let it blossom into your best decision.

Peace.