Life and Love (My Fight Against Cancer)

Love is Love

Ano nga ba ang ibig sabihin nila pag sinasabi na mali ang napiling mong mahalin? Ano ang basehan sa tama at maling pag mamahal?

I remember in my youngsters  that I once asked an older cousin why she choose to be with that person and how does she knows that the person is the one? She just simply answered me that I fall in love. Love is like a gamble. Kelangan mo sumugal kahit hindi mo alam kung mananalo ka o hindi. Paano pag natalo ako? Ang sakit nun diba? My follow up question to my cousin. And she told me na sa pagkabigo ka matututo kung paano ang magmahal. I was a bit puzzled by then but just give in and zip my mouth with the thought that I am not that ready I guess to absorb everything that she would say.

Along the paths that I have walked has showed me different kinds of love. Have seen people show their affection to their partners. They have their own way of showing how they value the person. It is Love.

Sad to know that not all relationships are accepted in our society. There's a certain kind of love where people would easily raised their brows along with the stares of a judgemental eyes upon seeing "same sex" couple. But why? They too just fall in love. It may not be the "kind of love" that we expect them to have , but at least let us show them some respect. It has always been my question that why it is so easy for them to judge those people. They just simply fall in love.

Can we not be happy for them that they have found their partner who is wiling to be at their side despite of the hardships that they will encounter in fighting for their chosen love. Why do we need to judge them? We don't know what they've been through and what they're going through in their lives. We don't even know how hard it is for them to fight for their own feelings, uttering to themselves that I should not fall for this person because people around me won't accept it

It may not be acceptable in the society but God loves us equally and as his children He will always open his hands to us.

What hurts them most is that even their own families are having a hard time accepting who they are. They tend to hide their true self to the people around them because they are not ready to accept those painful words from them. Acceptance is always the key to everything. Acceptance is our key to our freedom and happiness. We need to accept ourselves, the life that God has given to us, the road that we are destined to walk on our journey and along with these, we need to gain acceptance from our own family. It maybe hard for them to accept our choices, but in time they will understand the reason behind everything. It is a process, but it is definitely worth fighting for.

Each of us has its own road to take. It is different from anybody else's, but always remember, whatever road you take, no matter how hard it is, as long as you fight for it, you will definitely win the battle.

Kelangan natin magtiwala sa sarili natin na kaya natin ang kahit anong hamon ng buhay. Kasi kung ikaw mismo ang walang tiwala sa sarili mo na kaya mo, kung sarili mo ang susuko, how can we ask God to help us. And in every challenge, let us always look on the brighter side of everything. We need to have faith in ourselves and God. We need to keep our faith bigger than our fears. Just keep on fighting because whatever it is, I reckon that it is definitely worth fighting for. 🌈💫🌞

-creds to the owner of the photo-