K-pop Reactions And Scenarios

37. EXO reaction to you being scared of intimacy

Xiumin:

Moments like these are his favorite. When you are pressed back into the kitchen counter, his hands on either side of you and both your lips are Locked. It doesn't happen often, but when it does..it's beautiful. 

Because he just adores all the little sounds you make. And when your hands move to press against his chest, he pulls away slowly and looks down at your with hooded eyes.

"Jagi?" He's scared he's pushed you too far. Because he knows how you are with infancy and you have both been slowly working on it.

"Too much?" He asks softly then as he takes a step back, giving you some space. And you revel in the feeling of control again.
"Just a little...Sorry." You say softly, still trying to find your voice.
"Don't be. And don't force yourself to do anything you don't want to do. Got it?" He takes the information with intense care and easily backs off when he knows you have grown uncomfortable again. 

 Luhan:

He does the first thing he can think of and that's just put space between the two of you. Physically that is. He leaves it so you initiate and end all contact to avoid him pushing your boundaries. He's not that happy with it, but he understands that everyone is different. He just hopes you warm up to him soon, he likes to cuddle. 

Suho: 

He's fairly confused, if for no other reason then the fact that you never seemed to have an issue with him touching or sitting near you, but it takes him a moment to properly process exactly what it is you are saying to understand. 

and then he feels worried. He takes extreme care when it comes to touching you now, to the point that you just find yourself huffing and grabbing onto him when you want contact. He means well, but he's going a little too far sometimes.

"Suho. I'm not glass. you can touch me... just..don't go full on with it." you easily state one morning when he moves away from you when he's fully awake. There's a moment when you think you might have broken him before he laughs and envelopes you in a hug. its safe to say that he worries whenever he touches you and doesn't want to push you past your comfort zone.   

Sehun:

"Good. so I don't have to go out of my way to make you feel good." he supplied in a sarcastic manner. He takes it wrong. At first, he thinks that's your way of telling him you don't want him to touch you, and after a few hours of on and off arguing, you finally manage to get him to sit down and listen to what you're saying. Which of course has him awkwardly patting your head.
"Jagi." he starts then.
"So things like this are okay?" You groan and swat his hand away.
"Normal things are okay, just at a slow pace!" You're pretty sure he gets it now.

 Kris:
This nerd gets it automatically. Because instead of just moving you from atop him, he drops his head to your shoulder and nods in understanding.
"So things like this are alright baobei?" he asks slowly, and you nod. Because you might be scared of intimacy, but you aren't scared of him and the fact he understands that makes you really happy.
"...So i kinda need you to stop touching me for a little.."
"Overwhelming?"
"Yep." and he slowly unwraps himself from around you and helps you off his lap.

  Kyungsoo: 

He sighs in happiness because, to be honest, I feel like Kyungsoo is the same way. He doesn't always give physical affection to any of the members and easily brushes it off when the time comes. So i can easily see him and you being stuck in this whole weird circle of accidentally pushing each other an yourselves to do more then you are willing to do.   

 Chanyeol:
He understands, and dropping his hands to rest beside him on the couch, he simply looks you over. slowly you nuzzle yourself again him and sigh. He hands lightly rest on your back, and from this point on this is how it is. you tell him it is too much, and you both simply just hang somewhere between intimacy and closeness   

Baekhyun:
right away he understands. Although his first reaction was worry because he assumed he'd done something wrong. Despite knowing that it's mostly an internal thing with you, he still feels like he did something wrong, and despite you trying to reassure him he still treats you like glass.

  Kai:

He thinks its a little weird when you first tell him, but he listens and tries to understand what you're going through. and it's apparent he's making an effort. Being that he is naturally very touchy, he restrains himself around you and tries his best to ask before he touches you.  

Chen: 

His hands are at your waist, and he's slowly trailing kissing down your neck when he feels still. Immediately he pulls away and looks at you with worry, afraid he's hurt you in some way.
"It's not you." You quickly say then, Holding your hands up in a disarming manner as a means to relax him. 

"Then what happened? Are you alright?" And you feel a surge of regret of the worry that seeping into his voice.
"No! It's just..I'm scared of..all this."
"Of dating?" 

"No! Just...intimacy.." He looks at you oddly then before laughing and lightly kisses your forehead.
"Then we'll work on it till you aren't scared anymore." It's safe to say he takes this new found information easily.