Reborn Angelic Soul

"Bad Friend"

So I've had to come to the realization recently that I must just be a bad friend. Which is fine cuz I'm not necessarily a good person but I try to be and the only reason why I say I'm a bad friend at least in some people's eyes because of these facts.

I get it people have dumb moments people can be influenced by other people Everyone stumbles Falls and loses their way everybody, now what happens after that is they can continue to be fuck ups or they can learn from their mistakes fix those mistakes and move on and be better now that all being said depending on certain situations some people can have forgiveness others cannot and that's completely fine its life.

That also being said it is my firm belief that if you are willing to forgive one person for doing the exact same dumbness that another person did when your own actions were 20 times worse than what they did shouldn't you forgive them too? what makes one person worthy of forgiveness and second chance over someone else?

And believe me I get it not everyone can be friends with everybody after a certain point but in the same breath forcing someone to have to pick a side or forcing someone to have to pay cash or mugs friends is never going to be a okay cuz someone's always going to end up being hurt and now it sounds out of 10 is the person who is being forced to play monkey in the middle. I firmly believe that if you have one friend I can't stand another friend or multiple people then keep them completely separate don't stir the pot cuz that's only going to cause drama I also firmly believe that you keep them separate then you divide your time is it playing the middle and some cases yes is it always the best thing honestly not, but if it keeps everyone happy and keep the drama non-existent then shouldn't it be worth the try?

One would think just coming together and having a discussion about it in one big group whether you like the person or not would be a lot more smart, one would think that by everyone discussing how they feel and a giant discussion can you cleave and create Alternatives that can benefit everybody but that's just my thinking. personally I hate conflict and I hate drama and I especially hate being forced or being put in situations to where I need to pick a side especially if I have no drama with either side if either side don't like each other than that's fine personally I can be friends with everybody. Everyone needs to be friends with each other.

But I guess that's not always the case. So if me not wanting to pick aside and wanting to remain neutral and remains everyone friend memes I'm a bad friend and a bad person for not wanting to pick a side in a fight then bad friend I shall be but I guess that's only if the other person is willing to be the bigger person and give them one sadly this is not the way of life.