ok so there's probably going to be two sides to this rant (i'm a v balanced person, don't blame me idek)
one
if someone wants to lose their virginity when they're young (under 15 is weird in my eyes but eh if you're safe i don't judge) you keep your silly mouth shut. ye
it is their virginity for a fricking reason, leave them to do what they want for it
someone is NOT a slut for wanting to lose their virginity when they're a little younger
or to someone that they may not know
or when they're slightly tipsy
it is theirs to lose and you can let them lose it any damn way they want
hey i know people that lost it in public (dirty yeah, totally agree with that)
but i didn't judge bc they were drunk and wanted it over and done with
some people get scared (shocker) to lose it and want that bit of extra confidence or just like that it was a little easier to lose than having to worry about something going wrong and facing that person the next day
hell i was shit scared, like piss my pants scared and if i didn't have any alcohol in me i would have legged it out of that fricking room before she could have said hi (let's add this to facts you probably didn't want to know about alec)
so ye if someone wants to lose it quickly or randomly, you let them do whatever the damn they want to.
some people just don't think it's special
two
if someone does think it is special and wants to lose it to someone special then you shut the fuck up and let them do that.
they aren't frigid or a loser for it. they aren't scared (idk they might be but ayo who am i to judge)
they just think giving that part of themselves to someone is a special deal and you just gotta shut up and let that be a thing
(that kinda sounded a bit cringey but)
like personally i don't get the whole 'candels and rose petals' and i would probably never do that for a girl
(totally not saying i'm not a nice guy. i think i'd just worry too much about a fire to get the thing up to even take the fricking virginity)
back to my point, if someone wants to wait, you let them fucking wait
like srsly if you're those people that are like 'you're so frigid' just because someone doesn't want to have drunk sex with some random dude (or chick idk whatever you're into) then you can go suffocate under your covers bc bitch no one has time for yo shit.
